Virgin Auction

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

The fact remains that they can alter themselves physically through different sexual practices and I think its perfectly reasonable to not want to be with someone who cant pleasure you as a result of that kind of stuff.

No, it's not a fact. It's something you just made up and is blatantly untrue. If you want to point to pornstars who engage in some pretty outrageous sexual acts as a standard for regularly promiscuous women, that reflects more on your own warped perception of reality than anything else.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by rubecube

No, it's not a fact. It's something you just made up and is blatantly untrue. If you want to point to pornstars who engage in some pretty outrageous sexual acts as a standard for regularly promiscuous women, that reflects more on your own warped perception of reality than anything else.

I trust the judgement of the people who have expressed concerns about their girlfriends in on/off relationships. They wouldn't lie. In one case the guy knew his girlfriend had been with someone else before she even told him simply because it felt different.

[KelVarnsen]

Your friends are idiots.

[jhunt223]

They're nice guys and not sexist or mistrusting of women (like I am admittedly), but the topic came up one night while we were drinking and they were surprised to have found they had had similar experiences with their gfs.

[Daradon]

Originally Posted by Daradon

This is typical male sexism. The vaginal walls, like all muscles only get stronger with use. The only way they get looser is if there is tearing which is common with things like childbirth, but you'd have to be having an immense amount of freaky sex for that to be an issue.

The fact that you put in that first example shows hows it's probably in the guys minds because they are worried about sex with other men, and doesn't really have anything to do with the girl.

Virgins are of course tight, but there are different reasons for that. The hymen of course, and just the mental attitude at the time, IE, it's painful so they clamp down a bit unconsciously.

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Well I'm not going to just not say that stuff because it might hurt somebodies feelings. The fact remains that they can alter themselves physically through different sexual practices and I think its perfectly reasonable to not want to be with someone who cant pleasure you as a result of that kind of stuff.

Also, I don't see how its even a little naive to want that. It's not like there aren't women out there who match my ideals.

As I mentioned when I first responded to your posts, that simply isn't true. Sex (except for very rare circumstances) doesn't make you looser. You're simply buying in to old stereotypes and sexist ideal.

As far as what I meant by naive I just simply meant both sexes men, and women, are far more liberal than they used to be, so people with greater numbers of partners is going to be more popular. But as I mentioned there is nothing wrong with looking for a partner who has a similar sexual history or values as you do.

What has got people here worked up is that your values seem to be backed up by some very wrong information and some very sexist and jealous speak. Shoot, 'my god wants me to marry a virgin,' would make more sense and probably be healthier than a lot of stuff you have said.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by KelVarnsen

Your friends are idiots.

It doesn't require a Phd to determine if something feels tighter or looser around your penis.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

They're nice guys and not sexist or mistrusting of women (like I am admittedly), but the topic came up one night while we were drinking and they were surprised to have found they had had similar experiences with their gfs.

Good call. No one has ever said anything completely ######ed while getting liquored with a bunch of their friends.

[GP_Matt]

I think that this thread should be put on hold and restarted on Monday. I don't want to be refreshing my browser all weekend.

[Thor]

For a guy grossed out by gay guys you sure love to talk penis

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by rubecube

Good call. No one has ever said anything completely ######ed while getting liquored with a bunch of their friends.

We've discussed it since then completely sober and they stand by their claims.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

It doesn't require a Phd to determine if something feels tighter or looser around your penis.

Science>>>>>>>>Drunken morons relying on past recollections and failing to account for different circumstances

[Thor]

Originally Posted by troutman

Isn't Playboy largely unnecessary in Brazil?

LOL! This has to be one of my favorite quotes on CP ever

[Daradon]

^^^ Not only is it not necessary, it probably contains MORE clothes than a trip to the beach.

[KelVarnsen]

Tell me something, are these friends from a support group?

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

We've discussed it since then completely sober and they stand by their claims.

Again...science>>>>>>>>>>>>dumbasses

[The Fonz]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

I trust the judgement of the people who have expressed concerns about their girlfriends in on/off relationships. They wouldn't lie. In one case the guy knew his girlfriend had been with someone else before she even told him simply because it felt different.

Do you and your friends really believe a vagina is that fragile? A guy breaks up with his girlfriend, and a few weeks later she comes back with a broken vagina?

You and your friends sound like a bunch of insecure teenagers.

[malcolmk14]

jhunt you should definitely seek therapy or talk to someone about your anger and insecurity issues and attitude towards women. I'm not saying that to offend you or make you feel bad or whatever, I'm just genuinely concerned that you may go off the deep end one day and do something you could regret. Do you have a history of mental illness?

[Daradon]

Originally Posted by The Fonz

Do you and your friends really believe a vagina is that fragile? A guy breaks up with his girlfriend, and a few weeks later she comes back with a broken vagina?

You and your friends sound like a bunch of insecure teenagers.

You got me you #######! Had to wipe my screen after that one! Nice one.

Wow can't say bast...

[jhunt223]

No I'm all good bro and I assure you I'm not the first or the last fella who wants nothing to do with skanks. I'd feel the same way towards males if I was a female. This isn't an anti female thing. It's an anti promiscuity thing.

[KelVarnsen]

No, it is a an anti female thing. It really is. Your own insecurity is blinding you on the issue, but you have a issue with women.