Virgin Auction

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by First Lady

So when do you ask a woman about her sexual history?

When you first meet?
Third date?
Is there a 10 page questionaire?

It really doesn't have to be that complicated. You could pretty easily work it into conversation. Or you could just get drunk enough that you forget about social norms and say it out right. Either way I've found that it always comes up pretty quickly one way or another and I'm not usually the one who asks.

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Yes, but the one thats been with lots is a lot more likely to have been with some anaconda packing basketball player.

You keep giving and giving in this thread......you sir are a post slut.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by Nyah

What if the woman who was in a 5 year relationship was with the anaconda packing basketball player? Slut...

I have a feeling I'm never going to date Kobe's scraps so I'm not going to worry about it.

[KelVarnsen]

Disrespect, and mistrust towards women. Now something that can be taken as racist?

Wow.

[Thor]

Originally Posted by KelVarnsen

Disrespect, and mistrust towards women. Now something that can be taken as racist?

Wow.

[The Fonz]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Yes, but the one thats been with lots is a lot more likely to have been with some anaconda packing basketball player.

So is that what this is all really about? Penis insecurity? Not wanting to be with a woman who has seen a bigger penis?

[Rathji]

Originally Posted by KelVarnsen

Disrespect, and mistrust towards women. Now something that can be taken as racist?

Wow.

Are you saying Steve Nash has a small package?

Look who is being racist now.

[Thor]

I just find it quite funny how worried he is about how many rods his women have had in them. Sitting around wondering about that seems kinda odd

But unhealthy/weird attitudes from sex usually come from Catholics, so therefore I am branding you a sexually messed up Catholic

[Daradon]

Originally Posted by Thor

I just find it quite funny how worried he is about how many rods his women have had in them. Sitting around wondering about that seems kinda odd

But unhealthy/weird attitudes from sex usually come from Catholics, so therefore I am branding you a sexually messed up Catholic

Religion certainly doesn't help, but I've met a lot of guys with similar, maybe at least less obvious viewpoints. I don't know why people get so worked up about it. Usually it stems from jealousy, which has little to nothing what the other person is doing. It has to do with the fact that the person feeling jealous has low self esteem for whatever reason. Jealousy comes from feelings that one isn't good enough, that's why they care or want to control what the other person is doing. Who they are talking to, even who they were with before. Often it is unfounded. When it is 'founded' a person who is secure with themselves would simply get out of the situation. They may be mad at the other person, and have every right to be (say if they got cheated on), but they don't use that example to brand a whole gender, they simple go on to their next relationship.

If it was really as simple as not wanting to be with someone who has had a lot of partners, there wouldn't be all these other angry and misdirected comments. There's nothing wrong with wanting that, especially if there is no double standard. And I'm not sure there is one here, at least in the broadest sense. If we believe what we've been told this individual does value sex in a relationship and abides by the same principles more or less. However it's a lot of the sexist and angry talk that highlights that there is probably something else going on here.

Course women get equally jealous and show it in different (well sometimes the same, haha) but equally ugly ways.

[sun]

I also wouldn't want my girlfriend/wife to have been sexually promiscuous. It's difficult to articulate why though and jhunt isn't exactly doing a very good job haha

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by Daradon

Religion certainly doesn't help, but I've met a lot of guys with similar, maybe at least less obvious viewpoints. I don't know why people get so worked up about it. Usually it stems from jealousy, which has little to nothing what the other person is doing. It has to do with the fact that the person feeling jealous has low self esteem for whatever reason. Jealousy comes from feelings that one isn't good enough, that's why they care or want to control what the other person is doing. Who they are talking to, even who they were with before. Often it is unfounded. When it is 'founded' a person who is secure with themselves would simply get out of the situation. They may be mad at the other person, and have every right to be (say if they got cheated on), but they don't use that example to brand a whole gender, they simple go on to their next relationship.

If it was really as simple as not wanting to be with someone who has had a lot of partners, there wouldn't be all these other angry and misdirected comments. There's nothing wrong with wanting that, especially if there is no double standard. And I'm not sure there is one here, at least in the broadest sense. If we believe what we've been told this individual does value sex in a relationship and abides by the same principles more or less. However it's a lot of the sexist and angry talk that highlights that there is probably something else going on here.

Course women get equally jealous and show it in different (well sometimes the same, haha) but equally ugly ways.

It honestly is simply a matter of not wanting to be with someone whos been with a lot of people. I just see it as wrong and would be embarrassed to be with someone like that. I don't mean for any of it to come of as sexist.

[Daradon]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

It honestly is simply a matter of not wanting to be with someone whos been with a lot of people. I just see it as wrong and would be embarrassed to be with someone like that. I don't mean for any of it to come of as sexist.

Like I said, the desire to have a partner with the same sexual values as yourself and similar sexual history isn't the problem. That's fair. As long as you are living the values you speak. Maybe a bit naive, but fair.

But the comments you've made like 'made a mess of herself down there', 'back to the trash where she belongs', etc. do show a highly sexist and jealous viewpoint. So it makes the whole stance a little curious anyway.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by The Fonz

So is that what this is all really about? Penis insecurity? Not wanting to be with a woman who has seen a bigger penis?

If shes been with someone big enough for long enough that its stretch to a point that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.. why would I want to be with her? Why would anyone?

[KelVarnsen]

Someone has been grossly misinformed on this subject.

[RubberDuck]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

If shes been with someone big enough for long enough that its stretch to a point that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.. why would I want to be with her? Why would anyone?

Wow! I just waltzed into the end of this thread to see this! I've got some back readin' to do...

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by Daradon

Like I said, the desire to have a partner with the same sexual values as yourself and similar sexual history isn't the problem. That's fair. As long as you are living the values you speak. Maybe a bit naive, but fair.

But the comments you've made like 'made a mess of herself down there', 'back to the trash where she belongs', etc. do show a highly sexist and jealous viewpoint. So it makes the whole stance a little curious anyway.

Well I'm not going to just not say that stuff because it might hurt somebodies feelings. The fact remains that they can alter themselves physically through different sexual practices and I think its perfectly reasonable to not want to be with someone who cant pleasure you as a result of that kind of stuff.

Also, I don't see how its even a little naive to want that. It's not like there aren't women out there who match my ideals.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

If shes been with someone big enough for long enough that its stretch to a point that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.. why would I want to be with her? Why would anyone?

Jesus, man, did you not read any of the stuff that was posted here? Unless this guy is pounding her box multiple times/day for a long stretch of consecutive days, there's not going to be any difference. So if she's only had one night of sex with a guy like that, how would it affect your enjoyment? As previously pointed out, you'd have more to be concerned about if she dated a guy like that for a long period of time, and even then it's extremely unlikely that you would be able to tell. Do you have a bad case of baby dick or something?

[jhunt223]

Its not a jealousy thing with the sizes. If our pieces don't fit together correctly, then we just aren't a good match. Its not going to be good for either of us.

[malcolmk14]

This is awesome.

[KelVarnsen]

You might want to Google fleshlight(NSFW).