07-10-2022, 09:22 AM
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#61
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Location: SW Ontario
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Originally Posted by Cecil Terwilliger
Well, everyone on the planet is affected by climate change and it is, without question, the biggest threat to us all.
But that’s all irrelevant anyways, since my point stands regardless. Telling a person that someone else has it worse so they shouldn’t feel bad has and always will be a stupid move. I guess none of us should ever feel bad about anything ever because people are worse off.
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Catastrophizing is often a sign of depression or other mental illness. I've been there and yes I did therapy but you can also I assume google CBT for it and probably get the same exercises.
But regardless, it isn't good for your mental state.
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07-10-2022, 09:24 AM
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#62
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Shanghai
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I would say there is now actually more that can be done to improve the state of the world than ever before. It's a smaller world with faster, freer flowing information, resources, and influence for the average person than there has ever been before.
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07-10-2022, 10:14 AM
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#63
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Calgary
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Originally Posted by JohnnyB
I would say there is now actually more that can be done to improve the state of the world than ever before. It's a smaller world with faster, freer flowing information, resources, and influence for the average person than there has ever been before.
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Some would argue that's the problem.
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07-10-2022, 10:26 AM
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#64
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damn onions
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Originally Posted by Cecil Terwilliger
Well, everyone on the planet is affected by climate change and it is, without question, the biggest threat to us all.
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Is it? I read sometimes the reports based on the models and I’m not sure it’s quite the way people describe it. People in coastal areas? Yes. People in Calgary? I dunno, kinda, there’ll be an impact, but I don’t think it will be quite the “catastrophe” people make it out to be. I mean don’t get me wrong it’ll change things significantly to the downside. Less food available, more flooding / droughts etc. but it is not end of humanity stuff. People say it is but I wonder if they’ve read the reports and even that is all assuming all the “models” are 100% correct, which lets be honest they won’t be.
So it’ll be bad, people will die, but it won’t be the end of humans and society will figure out a way to move on with climate change is my prediction. And that doesn’t mean we don’t try to be more sustainable, it isn’t a political statement or meant to be, and it is a real large problem for sure. But, mainly when it comes to “end of civilization” and other alluding to doomsday “this is the worst thing ever” type rhetoric, I wonder how much people have critically thought about this.
I think the biggest dilemma right now for humanity is having Putin in control of whether or not to start a nuclear war, personally. That one has pretty bad implications, possibly far worse than climate change.
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07-10-2022, 10:29 AM
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#65
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Originally Posted by Dan02
Some would argue that's the problem.
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That combined with freer flowing misinformation
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07-10-2022, 10:30 AM
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#66
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Somewhere down the crazy river.
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Originally Posted by Matata
The "therapy paradox": would i still be depressed if i had the money & time for therapy? Theres nothing like telling poor, depressed people that all they need to do is invest a few thousand dollars they don't have into something that may not help them.
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A lot of employee benefits plans include some mental health spending allowances. This isn’t necessarily some poor/rich divide.
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07-10-2022, 10:32 AM
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#67
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Originally Posted by Wormius
A lot of employee benefits plans include some mental health spending allowances. This isn’t necessarily some poor/rich divide.
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A lot of employees don’t have an employee benefits plan
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07-10-2022, 10:40 AM
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#68
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Originally Posted by iggy_oi
A lot of employees don’t have an employee benefits plan
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Well, I suppose there is always free mental health support.
https://www.canada.ca/en/public-heal...-get-help.html
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07-10-2022, 10:44 AM
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#69
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Location: Park Hyatt Tokyo
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From a light brush on the state of the world to seek mental help for it in just a few pages. Wow. Epic thread.
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07-10-2022, 10:45 AM
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#70
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Location: St. George's, Grenada
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Originally Posted by topfiverecords
From a light brush on the state of the world to seek mental help for it in just a few pages. Wow. Epic thread.
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It's literally just "Pessimists vs Optimists: the thread"
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07-10-2022, 10:57 AM
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#71
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Originally Posted by topfiverecords
From a light brush on the state of the world to seek mental help for it in just a few pages. Wow. Epic thread.
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The reality is the "state of the world" is largely irrelevant to an individuals own inherent happiness. You can only control the actions that you take personally in the world and the way in which you react to situations that happen to you and you alone. We live in a world where you can go to the grocery store and buy fresh vegetables grown on the other side of the planet, have immediate access to the sum of human knowledge on a device you can carry in your pocket and most people posting in this thread have never known war personally in their home country
The world can be going to #### but you can still live a fulfilling happy life by focusing on yourself and making choices at every moment in your life that are true to your own values. That's all you can do. You can be empathetic to the conditions of others and make personal contributions to helping those around you, but not one of us can actually change anything about mass misinformation, starvation in Africa, war in ukraine or climate change other than choosing to research things with skepticism, donate to charities and choose a lower consumption lifestyle with a smaller carbon footprint
It really just is a matter of perspective and realizing what you can and cannot change, coming to terms with it and living your life in the moment as best you can
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07-10-2022, 11:03 AM
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#72
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Originally Posted by btimbit
It's literally just "Pessimists vs Optimists: the thread"
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And I, for one, think the Optimists are winning.
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07-10-2022, 11:07 AM
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#73
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Originally Posted by Wormius
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Most of those programs generally run on timelines that aren’t going to be enough to help someone in a really bad situation though.
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07-10-2022, 11:19 AM
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#74
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Lifetime Suspension
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Originally Posted by btimbit
It's literally just "Pessimists vs Optimists: the thread"
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Even when pessimists win, they lose. Because they have to go home with themselves and their thoughts afterward.
Optimists come to play but they're likely not as bothered with the outcome cause they can go find consolation through something else.
Being solution oriented always trumps bring problem oriented imo. And plenty of people make a habit/living out of dwelling in problems, even though it gets them nowhere except overwhelmed.
The key isn't to ignore problems necessarily, but just not to stay in them.
CP I'll admit can be addictive for having good old fashioned debates, but it's not always the best past time because there are a ton of low-vibers here that do nothing but point out what's awry with the world.
Breaks front this place always do me well. And I tend to stick to hockey and fun/funny topics, or wherever I can discuss self help because I think its a great thing to delve into.
Last edited by djsFlames; 07-10-2022 at 11:29 AM.
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07-10-2022, 11:36 AM
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#75
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Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: St. George's, Grenada
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Originally Posted by djsFlames
CP I'll admit can be addictive for having good old fashioned debates, but it's not always the best past time because there are a ton of low-vibers here that do nothing but point out what's awry with the world.
Breaks front this place always do me well. And I tend to stick to hockey and fun/funny topics, or wherever I can discuss self help because I think its a great thing to delve into.
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Preach brother
I see death every night at work, I've lost a child, and yet it's browsing CP that's often the most depressing part of my day. I can't even go into the hockey part of the site right now
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07-10-2022, 11:41 AM
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#76
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Lifetime Suspension
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Originally Posted by btimbit
Preach brother
I see death every night at work, I've lost a child, and yet it's browsing CP that's often the most depressing part of my day. I can't even go into the hockey part of the site right now
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Damn. Yeah, that speaks volumes..
Here's hoping Johnny extends in the next couple of days so the hockey forum can be a little less volatile to wade through.
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07-10-2022, 11:51 AM
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#77
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My ex is a psychotherapist and she has a pretty massive waitlist for people wanting to see her that she can't take on given there's only so many hours in a day. She mentioned to me the other day how this is a problem that all of her peers have and it has gotten worse since the pandemic.
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07-10-2022, 12:18 PM
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#78
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Shanghai
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Originally Posted by GreenLantern2814
And I, for one, think the Optimists are winning.
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An optimist would think so.
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07-10-2022, 12:48 PM
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#79
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Income Tax Central
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Originally Posted by GreenLantern2814
And I, for one, think the Optimists are winning.
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We cant have that!
Optimists are notoriously always wrong!
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07-10-2022, 12:58 PM
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#80
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Park Hyatt Tokyo
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Originally Posted by GreenLantern2814
And I, for one, think the Optimists are winning.
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And I, for one, think the Optimists are annoying.
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