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Old 10-26-2014, 08:32 PM   #101
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Ball gag and leather?

In all seriousness, this article is largely believed to be about Ghomeshi. http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/non-date

I don't know what the truth is here but I would look at Ghomeshi's facebook post with a little bit of skepticism.
If he's the person described here, I can see why the CBC cut him loose. He's obviously trying to frame the situation being about his taboo bedroom antics, when its his over the line persistence that's the issue.
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Watch the video instead of just commenting on the video title next time mmmkay?
Maybe just express your opinion in plain text next time rather than expect people to waste their time watching a video of someone else's comedy?
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Watch the video instead of just commenting on the video title next time mmmkay?
I've seen that bit before.

So let's just clear the air, since I'm obviously old and confused. Did you post it to infer that this breaking scandal is all the fault of gold digging whores?
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Classy of him to slander a girl on Facebook like that.
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I don't think it's any secret that I think Jian Ghomeshi is one of the best (if not the best) interviewer I've ever had the pleasure of listening to. His show was unbelievably good. He was well researched, well written, genuine, personable and could get a good interview out of anyone (except Billy Bob Thorton).

I was shocked to hear about his firing from CBC, but wasn't shocked about the content of his subsequent statement. I heard somewhere a few years ago that he wanted to sleep with any and every woman with large, shall we say… 'personalities'.

But to each their own.

And I honestly believe that.

IF, what Jian Ghomeshi's statement says is true, and I do mean IF as we've only heard his version of events, then who cares what he's into in the bedroom. Whether he's into BSDM, 20-something girls, old men, or clowns… who cares? If it's amongst consenting adults, in the privacy of the bedroom, and it doesn't affect his work, have at 'er.

But let's be careful.

Remember, Jian Ghomeshi hired a top crisis management PR firm; he hired a top tier law firm; he's made a seemingly outrageous damages claim (likely as a PR move rather than looking for accurate legal compensation); and he's one of the nation's top journalists who specializes in writing narratives.

The CBC wouldn't let one of their top money makers go without justification. Especially after losing its overall top money maker ever, Hockey Night in Canada the very same year.

If it was just a bedroom issue, then why keep Sook Yin-Lee and fire Ghomeshi?

If it was an offensive thing, then why keep Don Cherry but fire Ghomeshi?

There seems to be much more to this story, assuming the CBC didn't just catch a case of the stupids this past week.

I'm interested to see what FACTS come out, I'll leave the speculation out for now.

I still need to decide whether it's fair to cheer or boo, this is Q.
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Ball gag and leather?

In all seriousness, this article is largely believed to be about Ghomeshi. http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/non-date

I don't know what the truth is here but I would look at Ghomeshi's facebook post with a little bit of skepticism.
IMO they both come across looking bad in that article.
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Looks like a stint in sex rehab is next for Jian's PR campaign.
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Old 10-26-2014, 08:52 PM   #108
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I make no apologies for thinking a guy a couple of years younger than me picking up twenty year olds is a ###### bag, mostly because every guy I ever met in his fourties who shags girls in their twenties is always a ######bag.

You have nothing in common with a 26 year old in your late forties, assuming you're in any way normally developed, I'm not saying it's evil, just pathetic, a guy I play soccer with does this, mid forties, bought a Harley and a porsche, dates girls a few years older than his daughter that he picks up on POF, it's just sad, he's lonely, his kids no longer talk to him, he wears ed hardy t shirts and generally doesn't want to admit that he's middle aged.
There was a reality show about Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir (Canadian ice dance pair) on last winter that I saw a couple episodes of. Tessa goes to a party and runs into Jian. I didn't really know who he was, but thought he was being creepy around her. Girl I was seeing at the time said she thought he came across as creepy as well. Did a little searching and found this from G&M commenting on the episode.

"She attends a TIFF party while Moir retreats to London, Ont., to be with his girlfriend. At the party, Virtue encounters CBC Radio’s Jian Ghomeshi, who asks if she has downtime, and suggests they “hang out.” Oh my."

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/arts/...ticle16228592/

I agree with you afc. How many 46 year old men want to "hang out" with 24 year old women just to shoot the ####? I would say 9 times out of 10 you're looking for something else.
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Old 10-26-2014, 08:54 PM   #109
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BDSM was my next guess.
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Isn't everybody into 20-something women? They're kind of the archetype of female beauty and sexuality in our culture. I would have thought if there was a sex-draft with guys of all ages picking, "20 something women" would be at the top of everyone's list. I don't see anything surprising about a mid forties single guy who wants sex but doesn't want a relationship seeking out women in that particular age bracket. Hell, that's actually about the only age bracket you'll find women who only want a sexual relationship.

In any event, the age thing seems less weird than hunting down any member of the opposite sex who'll let you beat her sexually with a warm squash until she says "parakeet." That's a whole different debate.
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Consenual sex between adults is fine. Creepily harassing women isn't.

I'm a single guy in my 20s. I like to go out and socialise. If the woman ain't into me I'll move on. I will definitely not grab her ass, send her offensive texts, and just generally be a creep.

It'll be interesting to see how many more of these stories of harassment come out in the coming weeks. Assuming that xojane story was indeed about Ghomeshi
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There was a reality show about Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir (Canadian ice dance pair) on last winter that I saw a couple episodes of. Tessa goes to a party and runs into Jian. I didn't really know who he was, but thought he was being creepy around her. Girl I was seeing at the time said she thought he came across as creepy as well. Did a little searching and found this from G&M commenting on the episode.

"She attends a TIFF party while Moir retreats to London, Ont., to be with his girlfriend. At the party, Virtue encounters CBC Radio’s Jian Ghomeshi, who asks if she has downtime, and suggests they “hang out.” Oh my."

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/arts/...ticle16228592/

I agree with you afc. How many 46 year old men want to "hang out" with 24 year old women just to shoot the ####? I would say 9 times out of 10 you're looking for something else.
Oh the horror. He asked her to "hang out" ?!?! That's obviously so far across the line...
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Yeah, I seriously think we're focusing on the wrong part of the story here.

I could be 60 and want to hang out with Tessa Virtue
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Ball gag and leather?

In all seriousness, this article is largely believed to be about Ghomeshi. http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/non-date

I don't know what the truth is here but I would look at Ghomeshi's facebook post with a little bit of skepticism.
That's 100% about him.

Here's a tweet , addressed to her, that he posted the morning after meeting Jake (when Jake said the same thing that Jian is saying in the tweet) and it also was made on June 12, 2012, which is the same day Metric performed at the opera house.
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Well, that totally makes sense of Gerry Dee's tweet tonight:

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Before this gets out there, I want everyone to hear this from me first. My wife and I have sex once a month. Just her and I. Missionary.
At first I was like, dude, not funny. You've really lost it.

Now I'm like, Oooooohhh, I get it. Still not funny.
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Yikes. http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/2...ce=twitterfeed

"The three women interviewed by the Star allege that Ghomeshi physically attacked them on dates without consent. They allege he struck them with a closed fist or open hand; bit them; choked them until they almost passed out; covered their nose and mouth so that they had difficulty breathing; and that they were verbally abused during and after sex.


A fourth woman, who worked at CBC, said Ghomeshi told her at work: “I want to hate f--- you.”"

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Old 10-26-2014, 09:34 PM   #117
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and the other shoe drops with that star story
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Yikes. http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/2...ce=twitterfeed

"The three women interviewed by the Star allege that Ghomeshi physically attacked them on dates without consent. They allege he struck them with a closed fist or open hand; bit them; choked them until they almost passed out; covered their nose and mouth so that they had difficulty breathing; and that they were verbally abused during and after sex.


A fourth woman, who worked at CBC, said Ghomeshi told her at work: “I want to hate f--- you.”"
3 or 4 different women coming forward with similar stories. Not looking great for ol' Jian.
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I didn't realize he had so many fans, I always found him watered down and unimaginative in his questions, like he didn't get the best out of his interviews. I kind of thought he was plain and uninteresting.... But now this!!!.
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Old 10-26-2014, 09:40 PM   #120
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That's the danger with taking the early offensive: alliances start to form against you and no one has sympathy when you get nuked. Although he must have foreseen this.

Mind you, it's entirely possible he's got a masochistic side, so they could be playing into his hands.
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