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Originally Posted by Daradon
This is typical male sexism. The vaginal walls, like all muscles only get stronger with use. The only way they get looser is if there is tearing which is common with things like childbirth, but you'd have to be having an immense amount of freaky sex for that to be an issue.
The fact that you put in that first example shows hows it's probably in the guys minds because they are worried about sex with other men, and doesn't really have anything to do with the girl.
Virgins are of course tight, but there are different reasons for that. The hymen of course, and just the mental attitude at the time, IE, it's painful so they clamp down a bit unconsciously.
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Originally Posted by jhunt223
Well I'm not going to just not say that stuff because it might hurt somebodies feelings. The fact remains that they can alter themselves physically through different sexual practices and I think its perfectly reasonable to not want to be with someone who cant pleasure you as a result of that kind of stuff.
Also, I don't see how its even a little naive to want that. It's not like there aren't women out there who match my ideals.
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As I mentioned when I first responded to your posts, that simply isn't true. Sex (except for very rare circumstances) doesn't make you looser. You're simply buying in to old stereotypes and sexist ideal.
As far as what I meant by naive I just simply meant both sexes men, and women, are far more liberal than they used to be, so people with greater numbers of partners is going to be more popular. But as I mentioned there is nothing wrong with looking for a partner who has a similar sexual history or values as you do.
What has got people here worked up is that your values seem to be backed up by some very wrong information and some very sexist and jealous speak. Shoot, 'my god wants me to marry a virgin,' would make more sense and probably be healthier than a lot of stuff you have said.