09-28-2022, 11:57 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Calgary
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Destination Weddings - Need help!
Hey everyone,
My Fiance and I are looking to book our wedding for 2023 and would like to do a destination wedding. Likely Mexico but open to other places (both our parents are living in Puerto Vallarta)
Likely 25-75 people depending on a few factors but we have a decent size friend group that are looking for a vacation so we figure it'll likely be in the 50-75 range if we can keep it affordable for everyone.
Looking for recommendations for a wedding planner (local to the area we are getting married or who have extensive experience in those areas), photographer, venue, resorts to check out, etc.
Ideally, everyone stays at the same place and we can get married at the same place (to save transporting everyone back/forth from resort/venue). Obviously we're open to ideas, anything to help make this easier to plan.
TLDR
- Looking for suggestions on anything destination wedding related.
- Timeframe: Anytime in 2023 but the more time for planning, the better for everyone else.
- Venue: Prefer Outside but open to ideas
- Location: Anywhere warm but Mexico is easiest due to family already being there.
- Cost: Reasonable for a group of 50-75 people?
ANY HELP would be greatly appreciated!
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09-28-2022, 12:05 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Calgary, AB
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There was a recent thread on the subject. There might be some useful advice in there: https://forum.calgarypuck.com/showthread.php?t=189262
Some people have strong opinions about destination weddings, so buckle up...
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09-28-2022, 12:07 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Income Tax Central
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Originally Posted by getbak
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Surprisingly strong opinions.
God man....they gotta drop the puck on the season here....this off-season has been brutal!
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09-28-2022, 12:08 PM
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When we got married in Cancun the hotel had their own wedding planner that I think was kinda included in the cost of everything. I don't remember paying for it seperatly, but do remember they were good, and lots of communication.
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09-28-2022, 12:09 PM
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09-28-2022, 12:15 PM
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Such a pretty girl!
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Calgary
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No need to voice my opinion again from the other thread, but I'm just here for the
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09-28-2022, 12:59 PM
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while i am not disputing your math - i just dont feel this si teh right way to look at it.
Regardless of where the wedding is there is likely an expense in going. For those that are looking for an excuse to get a tropical vacation in then it is not a big deal.
There are others who are not going to go because it is too much money, effort and time to attend
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09-28-2022, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Northendzone
while i am not disputing your math - i just dont feel this si teh right way to look at it.
Regardless of where the wedding is there is likely an expense in going. For those that are looking for an excuse to get a tropical vacation in then it is not a big deal.
There are others who are not going to go because it is too much money, effort and time to attend
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Sliver thinks everyone should get married in a backyard (his backyard?) and snack on bags of chips. Total cost for 75 people off the top of my head would be about $400.
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09-28-2022, 01:28 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2003
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Originally Posted by you&me
Sliver thinks everyone should get married in a backyard (his backyard?) and snack on bags of chips. Total cost for 75 people off the top of my head would be about $400.
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Oooh la la.
Someone's serving Miss Vickie's I see.
What ever happened to good old no name chips?
Freaking kids these days!
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09-28-2022, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Bring_Back_Shantz
Oooh la la.
Someone's serving Miss Vickie's I see.
What ever happened to good old no name chips?
Freaking kids these days!
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No Miss Vickie's here.
I see you're not considering the cost of tap water.
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09-28-2022, 02:01 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Somewhere down the crazy river.
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Originally Posted by Sliver
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What is the relevance in speaking about it in terms of collective cost?
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09-28-2022, 02:10 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: back in the 403
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Ohh this thread is gonna get juicy...you've inadvertently stumbled upon a recent touchy subject in these parts, sir.
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09-28-2022, 02:17 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Alberta
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Originally Posted by Hi-Psi
Hey everyone,
My Fiance and I are looking to book our wedding for 2023 and would like to do a destination wedding. Likely Mexico but open to other places (both our parents are living in Puerto Vallarta)
Likely 25-75 people depending on a few factors but we have a decent size friend group that are looking for a vacation so we figure it'll likely be in the 50-75 range if we can keep it affordable for everyone.
Looking for recommendations for a wedding planner (local to the area we are getting married or who have extensive experience in those areas), photographer, venue, resorts to check out, etc.
Ideally, everyone stays at the same place and we can get married at the same place (to save transporting everyone back/forth from resort/venue). Obviously we're open to ideas, anything to help make this easier to plan.
TLDR
- Looking for suggestions on anything destination wedding related.
- Timeframe: Anytime in 2023 but the more time for planning, the better for everyone else.
- Venue: Prefer Outside but open to ideas
- Location: Anywhere warm but Mexico is easiest due to family already being there.
- Cost: Reasonable for a group of 50-75 people?
ANY HELP would be greatly appreciated!
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you're doing a destination wedding wrong.
I thought destination weddings were for people who don't want guests but feel obligated to invite them.
you're supposed to plan it so almost nobody wants to go, or can afford to go.
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09-28-2022, 02:37 PM
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First Line Centre
Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: Kelowna
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Elope and do a small gathering back home after. Seriously, I don't want to dog pile, but unless you ONLY want immediate family, this is a dumb thing to ask of your friends/extended relatives
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09-28-2022, 02:52 PM
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evil of fart
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Originally Posted by Wormius
What is the relevance in speaking about it in terms of collective cost?
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Because that's how it works to cost something out?
You want a big wedding in a beautiful beach destination with all the people you like/love there, but you don't want to pay for it. So you take the cost, which is about $150,000, and divide it by 75 people. Then you get your dream wedding, amazing photos and everyone you've ever cared about loses all respect for you. Seems like a great deal.
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09-28-2022, 03:17 PM
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Powerplay Quarterback
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Originally Posted by Sliver
Because that's how it works to cost something out?
You want a big wedding in a beautiful beach destination with all the people you like/love there, but you don't want to pay for it. So you take the cost, which is about $150,000, and divide it by 75 people. Then you get your dream wedding, amazing photos and everyone you've ever cared about loses all respect for you. Seems like a great deal.
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What if someone is willing to pay for it? Still selfish from a time-of-the-guest perspective? Or does a free vacation cancel that out?
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09-28-2022, 03:23 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Somewhere down the crazy river.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sliver
Because that's how it works to cost something out?
You want a big wedding in a beautiful beach destination with all the people you like/love there, but you don't want to pay for it. So you take the cost, which is about $150,000, and divide it by 75 people. Then you get your dream wedding, amazing photos and everyone you've ever cared about loses all respect for you. Seems like a great deal.
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Maybe I misread the OP, but sounds like every guest is paying for themselves.
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09-28-2022, 03:24 PM
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evil of fart
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Originally Posted by you&me
What if someone is willing to pay for it? Still selfish from a time-of-the-guest perspective? Or does a free vacation cancel that out?
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If the couple is going to pay to have the guests attend? That's very generous. If people want to use their holiday time for that it's an amazing gift from the couple to the guests.
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09-28-2022, 03:26 PM
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evil of fart
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Originally Posted by Wormius
Maybe I misread the OP, but sounds like every guest is paying for themselves.
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That's exactly correct. The bride and groom are having a large beach-side wedding that their guests are funding. The bride and groom will pay $4000 and the remaining $146,000 it will cost to have everyone attend will be divided amongst the 75 guests.
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