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Old 08-10-2012, 04:25 PM   #141
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No. I meant that relationships with people between the ages of 16-22 (16, 17 year olds dating 18-22 year olds) should be treated differently that people out of that age range.
Why? Because when a 16 yr old is compelled to sex by another 16 yr old, that is less "rape" than if it is done by a 26 yr old?
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Old 08-10-2012, 05:51 PM   #142
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You argue that 15 is too young to make a decision for sex with anyone over 18
Whoa now, I never made that argument for anything, so don't claim that I have. All I've said in this thread is that I agree the age of consent is an arbitrary issue, though this particular case is less arbitrary because of the fact the girl was under-age (in the eyes of the law, which is what matters in this particular situation), and the offending man is a police officer. My answer to you when you asked if she was a child was just that . . . an answer. It wasn't a statement on what the age of consent should or should not be.
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:05 PM   #143
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Haha sorry HP, duly noted.
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They are saying that wiring changes due to gaining life experience. If you stop young people from making their own decisions, you are taking away that ability to gain experience. I also don't see anything in their that says the minds of a young person are unable to make decisions.
I agree, but the ability to make some decisions was not what I was talking about.

People can legally have sex from 14 years of age or older, With some restrictions on the partner. Claiming that it somehow impairs their learning and experience is a rather odd claim, given the thread
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:59 PM   #145
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Why? Because when a 16 yr old is compelled to sex by another 16 yr old, that is less "rape" than if it is done by a 26 yr old?
Children are often easily manipulated by those that are older. The reason 16 year olds can't consent to adults is the same reason younger children can't consent to adults. It is different for people of the same age, that obvious power dynamic is absent with two 16 year olds.
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Old 08-10-2012, 07:04 PM   #146
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It sounds like Officer Borel plays by my golden rule when it comes to this sort of situation:

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Old 08-10-2012, 08:45 PM   #147
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Well, Weiser Wonder certainly raped this thread.

And it was only one day old...

THREAD STATUTORY RAPIST!!!
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Old 08-10-2012, 08:55 PM   #148
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One of my cousins was 15 when she hooked up with her teacher, they are married and have been together for 10yrs with 2 kids.

I think judges should have the leeway to judge harshly or lightly depending on situations, and I am thankful I am not the one making those calls.
Your cousin was abused growing up.
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Old 08-10-2012, 08:58 PM   #149
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I'll remember that when I'm caught going 10 KM over the speed limit.

Numbers are put there for a reason.
You should; if you get busted going ten over the limit anywhere outside of a playground zone, you fight that tooth and nail on the grounds that a police force should be catching criminals and not writing chicken S tickets.
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Old 08-10-2012, 09:08 PM   #150
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Your cousin was abused growing up.
She was not, came from a healthy, normal home.
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She was not, came from a healthy, normal home.
Healthy normal upbringings do not result in you boning your teacher at age 15. It may not have been her parents, but somebody did something to her. There's trauma somewhere.
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Old 08-10-2012, 09:12 PM   #152
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Sorry, often that surely is the case, not this one.
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Old 08-10-2012, 10:38 PM   #153
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I think we live in a culture that idolizes and objectifies bodies to the point that people think sex with teenagers is legitimate because they feel like they are naturally compelled to do it. That's bull ####. Sexual complusion is a maladaptive coping mechanism to a society that enforces gender roles and limits self-expression.
WTF? I'm pretty sure sexual compulsion is the reason the human species exists, not a reaction to societal constructs.
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I feel like most guys who say 'cougar' are picturing some sort of Kim Catrall chick, not a mentally disturbed meth head who happens to fit the age bracket.
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