condomless sex

[PYroMaNiaC]

[quote=Alana Flames;963062]

Then theres those metal-type thingy's that go in there and stay in there for I'm pretty sure years. They are supposed to be really effective and no-maintenence(until they need to be switched I guess)

quote]

It's called an IUD. Generally, they are good for 5 to 10 years. They are inserted by a doctor and then left alone. 99% effective like most birth control.

Not to be confused with a diaphram which is inserted before sex, used with a contraceptive foam, and then removed 6 to 8 hours after sex. Also considered highly effective.

[pope04]

Originally Posted by WessThompson

We like to call it the "pull and pray"

Or, Whip it in, whip it out, wipe it off and worry.

[Muta]

doing in the butt is a terrific alternative

just watch out for unsuspecting dingleberries

[pope04]

Originally Posted by octothorp

A friend of my wife was a firm advocate of the rhythm method. She's now 28 with five kids.

My wife and I've been using this method for the past five years or so in addition to 'domes and good ol' abstinence. I spend a lot of time staring at the calendar.

[Sainters7]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

For the ladies, is taking the pill all that inconvienient?

I dont see how taking a pill at a regulated time every day is inconvenient. Me and my girlfriend dont use condoms either, I just use the pull out technique. But she uses the pill daily, I dont see why yours wouldnt. The only inconvenience is when her alarm wakes me up the next day at 7:30am every time because its time for her to take her pill(evidently it must always be at 7:30, I'm fine with it if thats what it takes). Personally I'd be scared to hell if I was in your sitchy, without any type of contraceptive.

[pope04]

Originally Posted by PYroMaNiaC

.... she has to remember to swallow once a day at the same time,

YEAH, that's the ticket!

Oh, you mean the pill.

[sadora]

Originally Posted by Ha Ha Stupid Oilers

I know I've mentioned this in another thread, but after a few weeks of daily condomless sex, it's becoming more of a concern (I think).
So she hates the feel of condoms and would rather do it without the rubber. As awesome as this sounds, she isnt on the pill or using any kind of contraceptives herself. This has me worried that I might not pull it out on time and that the pre cum would eventually get her pregnant.

Am I worrying too much?

For the ladies, is taking the pill all that inconvienient?

Unless you want a kid I think you have the right to worry. Here's something that personally I can't wait to see in the market: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/liv...n_page_id=1770

The no side effects factor is something that will turn me into a devout user of this.

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by Alana Flames

PSSS: Firefly: like instant? how instant?

Let's just say that if the man in question didn't freak out and disappear all week, I would've had a lot of nastiness goin on. And it was like that for two and a half days. I could just be sitting there and jiggle my butt funny. I don't think I'd recommend trying it for fun though. You could react like one of the other girls do and have nasty things happen to you instead.

[Gugstanley]

I can't help you without more information. What are your IQ's? Do you both have jobs? Do you contribute to society in a positive manner?

Most people with Jobs and contributing to society have a harder time getting pregnant

Get all you can while you can but wake up and get some protection.

[pope04]

Somewhere, a junior high sex ed teacher is crying.

[photon]

Originally Posted by FireFly

That's not necessarily true. Every female is different. I took one a few months ago and it didn't upset my belly at all. As a matter of fact, it made me super horny, like instant orgasms. I almost contemplated buying them again just because...

Lol! I didn't even know that the morning after pills were available here yet. I must admit that it's something I'm completely ignorant about.. how are they used? Every time there's unprotected sex? Just when you are suspicious? When you first test positive?

Originally Posted by habernac

LOL. wow, this is hall of fame material for sure. "Is there a risk of pregnancy if pulling out is my method of birth control?" Holy crap, is it 1936 here?

It never ceases to amaze me at how many misconceptions and stuff there is in the young people I ever talk to about this kind of thing. I mean my dad was about as bad you could get at this stuff, but at least he got a good book and left it on my bed for me to find (no, not a nudie mag), I read it, and was more educated that everyone I knew at that point.

[Flames in 07]

We need a thread hall of fame section, place this one with the dude who wanted to ask the lifeguard out and the one where MacT was singing "I'm a barbie girl"

In all seriousness, Ha Ha, if your question from the outset is serious I think you and your partner need to understand that what you are doing is russian roulette and you are making very short term decisions with very long term implications.

[photon]

Originally Posted by Flames in 07

We need a thread hall of fame section,

You mean like this one? http://forum.calgarypuck.com/showthread.php?t=14541

[Nehkara]

Originally Posted by pope04

Somewhere, a junior high sex ed teacher is crying.

This story may make all sex ed teachers in the world cry.

[Jagger]

Wow, what an entertaining thread in a disturbing kind of way. Good luck with your failsafe method. Take it from someone who has had no problem getting my wife pregnant, it......doesn't......work!

[Flash Walken]

Originally Posted by WessThompson

Ack...stay clear of that thing. Nothing like pulling out with a ring around your hammer...been there done that

Oh get over yourself.

Better than pulling out with a ziplock around your 'hammer'.

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by photon

Lol! I didn't even know that the morning after pills were available here yet. I must admit that it's something I'm completely ignorant about.. how are they used? Every time there's unprotected sex? Just when you are suspicious? When you first test positive?

It's not something you should be taking every time you have unprotected sex, only when there's the potential for an accident. You should be using other birth control and use it as a back-up method for when the condom breaks and she's really fertile or when she forgets three pills in a row and doesn't tell you or whatever. You have 72 hours to take your first pill, so there may or may not be time for a pregnancy test and it may or may not be accurate anyways. You just go to the clinic and get the pill.

Basically it's a super birthcontrol pill that's like 5 times a woman's normal dosage, (maybe higher, I don't rightly recall) and you take 2 pills 12 hours apart or something like that. What it does is it forces you to have your period right away. It was a while ago I forget the specifics, but that's the jist of it.

[FireFly]

This thread is just another example of why women have it worse than men. You get the condom, our options are needles, pills, things in our hooeys... whatever. Suck it up princesses! Do your part! I can't wait until the male birth control pill comes out.

[Alana Flames]

Originally Posted by photon

Lol! I didn't even know that the morning after pills were available here yet. I must admit that it's something I'm completely ignorant about.. how are they used? Every time there's unprotected sex? Just when you are suspicious? When you first test positive?

I think within 72 hours of unprotected sex... techinically everytime you have unprotected sex because it shouldn't be happening regularily...
But it has a very high hormone content which can screw with a woman's cycle and system...not to mention cause nausia and other symptoms. Not for everyday use for sure.

[Josh]

I had a friend in highschool that did the "pull out" method of contraception. I think his daughter is 7 now.