If You Are A Woman, Don't Go To Dubai

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by PsYcNeT

True.

As a woman however, my wife has a stupid amount of stories over the last 7.5 years I've been with her of her being harassed (mainly DT) when walking to lunch/to transit/back from a work site.

The most I've ever dealt with as a guy (and I'm sure most other dudes have as well, it's endemic apparently) is a group of guys in a car/truck drive by scream "FAAAAG!!!" or "HOMO!!!", which is hilariously sad in retrospect.

To be clear was was not trying to discount the D-bag level of that guy.

Sadly, I suspect many women have a long list of these incident.

[tete]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

While that guy sounds like an #######, it could have been a women yelling that.

"HEY BITCH, HEY BITCH, HEY BITCH, LEFT ME FORCE MY PENIS INTO YOUR VAGINA, HEY BITCH"

That seems like a "rapy remark"

Not sure if I can explain this, but as a woman, if I am being yelled at and being called "bitch", while it may not be a "rapy remark", it's an agressive remark. I'm going to assume that this person is not a mild mannered, respectful person and that if I had an encounter with this person, it could be agressive/violent. Will it end up in rape, perhaps not, but I'd rather not find out. So while that guy might not rape me, he could be violent and so yelling stuff like that at me would make me very uneasy and feel vulnerable. Does that make sense?

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by tete

Not sure if I can explain this, but as a woman, if I am being yelled at and being called "bitch", while it may not be a "rapy remark", it's an agressive remark. I'm going to assume that this person is not a mild mannered, respectful person and that if I had an encounter with this person, it could be agressive/violent. Will it end up in rape, perhaps not, but I'd rather not find out. So while that guy might not rape me, he could be violent and so yelling stuff like that at me would make me very uneasy and feel vulnerable. Does that make sense?

Totally and sorry if my reponse to his post came across as down playing the #### women have to deal with.