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Old 01-20-2012, 11:32 AM   #21
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We didn't have ADHD in our day, and we certainly didn't pump our kids full of drugs.
There was a time when we didn't have cancer either, people just died for unknown reasons.

An increase in incidents isn't necessarily indicative of an increase in misdiagnosis, it can simply be that kids that previously were not being diagnosed now are.

And no caring parent or pediatrician is going to "pump our kids full of drugs", every responsible parent I've ever spoken with that has a kid with ADD/ADHD has talked about a constant journey of trial and error to find the right medication and the appropriate dosage.

It's a real problem and the medications can help.

Pretend one of the threads on CP is like your brain's thought process. You read through the thread sequentially, automatically prioritizing posts you have interest in based on context, poster's name (which you probably derive through peripheral vision of their avatar and shape of name, you don't necessarily read the name fully), earlier messages that post may be quoting, and a dozen other things which all happens at the back of your mind, while the front actually pays full attention to the post you are actually reading, all one after the other.

For someone with ADHD, every piece of info above happens at the same volume, so there's far less foreground and background processing, and all the posts are talking at the same time overtop each other.

At best it makes it difficult to separate out the most important information from the racket of all the other input, at worst it does this to a dangerous degree (imagine crossing a crosswalk where "finish crossing the crosswalk" and "hey look at that bug" have exactly the same level of priority in the brain.. it's dangerous).
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My kids are not old enough for school, but my nephew is pretty ADHD. He has been accepted into Juno Academy after being in cadets for a year. This situation, while not identical to an all boys school, is probably very similar.It has helped his focus, but it hasn't removed the need for meds.

So, from my experience don't expect a complete drug replacement in the short term.
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My kids are not old enough for school, but my nephew is pretty ADHD. He has been accepted into Juno Academy after being in cadets for a year. This situation, while not identical to an all boys school, is probably very similar.It has helped his focus, but it hasn't removed the need for meds.

So, from my experience don't expect a complete drug replacement in the short term.
I'm not discounting the meds at all but if a different learning style can help and reduce the dosage then I'm all for it.

The dosage he's on now is severely affecting his appetite and he's lost about 30 pounds in the last year. Which is a lot for an 8 year old who wasn't that big to start...

I'm kind of attached to the little guy and want to keep him around for a while...
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Oi yeah if he's losing weight then that's a big issue.. my kid's apatite is quite low and it always seems we're encouraging a few extra bites, but he's his weight stays at the same percentile vs. his age so we're fortunate I guess.

And totally agree, minimal dosage to get the necessary effect, and the learning style has to be very different, establishing neural patterns via repetition works better for these kids. The muscle memory analogy is apt for their brains.
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Why an all-boys school? If you dont mind me asking.

I dont understand what additional benefits it would offer as opposed to a regular school.
My wife is a teacher and is currently reading the book "Girls and Boys Learn Differently". The parts she's shared with me have been facinating. The way our brains function are very different, especially in terms of how we like to communicate and take in information. These differences are excentuated in the developing human brain.

For example, women have a much stronger link between the parts of their brain that control memory and emotion. This is why my wife can remember that thing I said 3 years ago that really pissed her off. For men, memory storage most efficient when the information is well organize. This is why I can tell my wife the current standings in the Western conference or how many goals Iginla has scored over the last 5 years.

Women are better multi-taskers. Men are better at focused tasks. Girls are better at sitting and listening to a lesson. Boys prefer to be active. Boys tend to advance in reading levels slower than girls. Etc...

There are lots of benefits associated with seperating boys and girls in the classroom, especially at an early age. Boys don't really start to care about girls until puberty anyways (around grade 5/6), so I don't see an all boys school at the elementarylevel as a social detriment at all.

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I would think putting him in an all boys school will cause more issues...Think about it, an 8 year old boy is more likely to screw around in class with another boy than a chick.
Lol...what?
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"Sounds gay" - Mikey the redneck

Actually, I don't think it is gay at all.

Our school system is lame.

I don't think I would keep him in a boys school in grades 10-12 though. The kid has to learn game somewhere....

If it were me, I would take my kid right off the ADHD drugs upon entering the new school that is more geared for boys.
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