[News] Milan Lucic involved in domestic incident; Taking indefinite leave of absence

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by curves2000

Reading between the lines, this has the hallmarks of being a really bad Milan Lucic episode he may have had at home vs his wife while under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Serious enough that his wife may have been badly injured and is pressing charges. A lot of couples will have arguments or disagreements where things get heated, things get thrown etc. This doesn't appear to be the case. This appears more serious.



Or the person who was potentially victimized is NOT his wife and this is going to get uglier, much quicker for him.

curves2000 writes some of the weirdest posts ever

Originally Posted by GullFoss

Have you had one of your partners think that you had cheated on them tho?

Happened to someone I know. Girl snooped his phone bill and saw 300 texts and calls btwn bro and his ex. Girl got hysterical. Started throwing pots and pans and plates at the bro. Like she went ballistic. Eventually bro gets triggered, tried to stop her. Bro ended up shaking her and yelling her face "wtf are you doing Amanda, calm da #### down woman." Not necessary, but not assault.

Then she called 911, police escorted him off the property after allowing him to grab some personal items. Took statements from all of us. No charges were filed.

Never figured out if he cheated on her. It was a good night for me tho. Amanda was down for revenge. And I helped her get it, if you know what I mean. I was only 19, so it was only a couple mins of revenge, but still counts. As Shakespeare says, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

#### my bad

Apologies curves2000

[PepsiFree]

Originally Posted by butterfly

That doesn't address what WhiteTiger said.

Originally Posted by WhiteTiger

Mm, a 911 call is not proof that something happened. Or that what did happen happened exactly as whoever called said it did.

I'd wait for charges/trial, and not use a 911 call as proof of guilt or innocence.

Originally Posted by PepsiFree

Huh? He was arrested and charged with assault and battery

But sure, except for where it exactly addresses what he said.

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by TrentCrimmIndependent

Failing to understand the point of sharing this, in this thread..

Looking for Bro points?

[FanIn80]

Doesn't make sense. You're supposed to take care of each other. Look out for each other. Have each other's back. Domestic abuse from either side is the literal opposite of that.

It's just a stupefying concept for me to wrap my head around, to be honest.

[FlamesAddiction]

Some of the posts make me laugh.

"What, Lucic was arrested for allegedly assaulting and choking his wife? I hope he is OK and can get the help that he needs!"

Nah. If the allegations are true, I hope he gets appropriately punished for it and never gets another chance to do it again. If that means getting him counseling or putting him in jail, I am fine with either. Whatever it takes to protect his partner and children.

[jlh2640]

Originally Posted by Reggie Dunlop

Mike Babcock would like to know what’s on that phone.

This had me rolling on the floor laughing

[butterfly]

Originally Posted by PepsiFree

But sure, except for where it exactly addresses what he said.

Eh, partially, I must concede. Luckily being charged isn’t automatic guilt. I’ll withhold judgment until the disposition.

[Snuffleupagus]

Good ol CP, conviction before facts.

[The Boy Wonder]

Originally Posted by GullFoss

Have you had one of your partners think that you had cheated on them tho?

Happened to someone I know. Girl snooped his phone bill and saw 300 texts and calls btwn bro and his ex. Girl got hysterical. Started throwing pots and pans and plates at the bro. Like she went ballistic. Eventually bro gets triggered, tried to stop her. Bro ended up shaking her and yelling her face "wtf are you doing Amanda, calm da #### down woman." Not necessary, but not assault.

Then she called 911, police escorted him off the property after allowing him to grab some personal items. Took statements from all of us. No charges were filed.

Never figured out if he cheated on her. It was a good night for me tho. Amanda was down for revenge. And I helped her get it, if you know what I mean. I was only 19, so it was only a couple mins of revenge, but still counts. As Shakespeare says, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

I haven’t been around CP much lately but this is an all time post. Honestly don’t even care if true. Thanks for the laughs, well done, especially in a serious thread

[combustiblefuel]

Originally Posted by mennoknight

cool story that absolutely happened

I've actually seemed many situations like this.


One time it ended up with My best friend in kamloops getting stabbed in the heart just for flirting with an ex on MSN messenger. Look up " david holditch kamloops death" dude that killed him was a week away from going to be rcmp camp. We were all friends and we all lived together at one point.

#### like this absolutely happens.They get ruled as "crimes of passion " . This a hole only got 3 years since he did this due to a technicality the prosecution instructed the jury.


I remember coming home that night everyone in tears having to tell me what happened. I remeber the fight Steven had with Kyla before storming out going home and disconnecting the phone lines ...


Sorry, I've seen stories like the one told here. Just because you guys and girls deem stories for "bro points" d9sent mean they are not real...

The most ####ed up part of this story I told was Steve dated her,they broke up . She dated Dave they broke up, she started dating Steve but flirting on MSN messenger. Steve finds out stabs Dave in the heart. 1 year later he is paroled and she sleeps with Steve multiple times while on parole. She then marries Steve's best friend devorvices him after a few years and children and marries her best friends husband after her best friend dies of cancer...


My point being is the world is #### and everyone is ####ed. Can't dismiss every crazy story .

[curves2000]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

curves2000 writes some of the weirdest posts ever



#### my bad

Apologies curves2000

Why? Context matters and when we get full details, then people's opinions may change one way or another.

Police get called to domestic abuse calls everyday, not everyone is the same thing. There is big difference between a yelling match, things getting smashed and thrown around and than fulling striking and assaulting someone.

He has been married to her for a long time with children and what appears to be, a great life. Sometimes people in those type of scenario's don't like to "rock the boat" so to speak, probably why incidents of spousal abuse may be reported lower in people of wealth and means.

The fact that afterwards some reporting is said that Lucic physically having his hands around his wife's neck, that's a different scenario than throwing an object at her. Context matters in the courts and in public opinion.

I don't know what happened but the fact that charges are now being laid, it indicates that this is a more serious incident. https://www.boston25news.com/news/lo...G5I575C7JS4GI/


Also, it's not that out of the realm of possibility for an athlete to be charged with assaulting someone they aren't married to.

[IceBergYYC]

Originally Posted by Hemi-Cuda

Or stick to retired players. I was happy enough that my Conroy jersey got extra life when he came back and retired here, now it's extra nice that he's leading the organization

thats how you end up with a Fleury jersey

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[BowRiverBruinsRule]

Originally Posted by GullFoss

Have you had one of your partners think that you had cheated on them tho?

Happened to someone I know. Girl snooped his phone bill and saw 300 texts and calls btwn bro and his ex. Girl got hysterical. Started throwing pots and pans and plates at the bro. Like she went ballistic. Eventually bro gets triggered, tried to stop her. Bro ended up shaking her and yelling her face "wtf are you doing Amanda, calm da #### down woman." Not necessary, but not assault.

Then she called 911, police escorted him off the property after allowing him to grab some personal items. Took statements from all of us. No charges were filed.

Never figured out if he cheated on her. It was a good night for me tho. Amanda was down for revenge. And I helped her get it, if you know what I mean. I was only 19, so it was only a couple mins of revenge, but still counts. As Shakespeare says, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

This is a weird post. You should have just kept watching the Grey Cup.

[Scroopy Noopers]

Originally Posted by TrentCrimmIndependent

Failing to understand the point of sharing this, in this thread..

Or in any thread other than the yet to be made “Deliberately embarrass yourself here” thread.

[PepsiFree]

Originally Posted by butterfly

Eh, partially, I must concede. Luckily being charged isn’t automatic guilt. I’ll withhold judgment until the disposition.

This has nothing to do with what I said, who said being charged is automatic guilt and who cares if you’re withholding judgement? Go nuts. Good for you.

What “disposition” are you waiting for?

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by curves2000

I don't know what happened.

Fixed

None of us truly know what happened.

Let the process play out.

If he is guilty then #### him.

PS: I can't stand and never could stand Lucic.

[FanIn80]

Originally Posted by Scroopy Noopers

Or in any thread other than the yet to be made “Deliberately embarrass yourself here” thread.

Not sure what you're on about. I've made plenty of those threads here.

[blankall]

Originally Posted by GullFoss

Have you had one of your partners think that you had cheated on them tho?

Happened to someone I know. Girl snooped his phone bill and saw 300 texts and calls btwn bro and his ex. Girl got hysterical. Started throwing pots and pans and plates at the bro. Like she went ballistic. Eventually bro gets triggered, tried to stop her. Bro ended up shaking her and yelling her face "wtf are you doing Amanda, calm da #### down woman." Not necessary, but not assault.

Then she called 911, police escorted him off the property after allowing him to grab some personal items. Took statements from all of us. No charges were filed.

Never figured out if he cheated on her. It was a good night for me tho. Amanda was down for revenge. And I helped her get it, if you know what I mean. I was only 19, so it was only a couple mins of revenge, but still counts. As Shakespeare says, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

1. You sound like an awful friend.

2. I do agree that we don't know all the details with Lucic. If the police are called to a domestic abuse situation, they almost always have to arrest someone to just de-escalate the situation and it's typically the person who got the police called on them who gets arrested. In order to place a restraining order on one party, which is standard procedure in a domestic abuse situation to keep the parties separated, at least one party needs to also be charged. Those charges are often dropped later after a "cooling off" period.

I deal with a fair bit of family law. Often I see situations where it's a mutual wrestling type situation, with the woman being aggressive. Stereotyping all women as incapable damsels in distress helps no one. I've seen men get arrested who clearly had physical injuries showing they took the brunt of the beating.

Other times, it's a controlling A-hole who is beating and strangling his female partner and deserves to be in the criminal system.

We don't actually know what happened with Lucic.

[TrentCrimmIndependent]

Originally Posted by FanIn80

Not sure what you're on about. I've made plenty of those threads here.

Ditto, my friend.

[butterfly]

Originally Posted by PepsiFree

This has nothing to do with what I said, who said being charged is automatic guilt and who cares if you’re withholding judgement? Go nuts. Good for you.

What “disposition” are you waiting for?

The disposition of the Lucic case. I don't care to know what the police claim someone did; I'd prefer to wait for due process.

And, yeah, I just happen to be a Modesto fan. Go Nuts.