Ladies, need your help

[rubecube]

I find FAS people are ugly.

[notoepik]

Intelligence
Honesty & Morals
Compassion for others
Sense of Humor
Confidence
Looks


I am immediately drawn to intelligence, especially combined with compassion and honesty. Looks are not very important to me. Sure good looks would be nice, and I can certainly appreciate a hunky stud. But looks really are only skin deep.

[CaptainCrunch]

Must not kick puppies and steal candy from babies (under the age of two)

[TheyCallMeBruce]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Must not kick puppies and steal candy from babies (under the age of two)

LOL. Well, as long as it's not puppies. Kitties are ok.

[Maritime Q-Scout]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Must not kick puppies and steal candy from babies (under the age of two)

I love how you qualified an age limit

[notoepik]

No kicking either kittens or pups.

And treat your Mother right.

Babies don't need candy, go ahead and steal it

[Maritime Q-Scout]

Originally Posted by notoepik

Intelligence

I'm smarter than you

Originally Posted by notoepik

Honesty & Morals

honestly I am

Originally Posted by notoepik

Compassion for others

I feel bad about it and will help where ever I can

Originally Posted by notoepik

Sense of Humor

I mean it's just like what's big, red, and eats rocks? A big red rock eater (thank you cheesey joke thread)

Originally Posted by notoepik

Confidence

Now I'm not saying I'm the man... but I am

Originally Posted by notoepik

Looks

unfortunatley I'm ugly

Originally Posted by notoepik

I am immediately drawn to intelligence, especially combined with compassion and honesty. Looks are not very important to me. Sure good looks would be nice, and I can certainly appreciate a hunky stud. But looks really are only skin deep.

So I guess I'm your perfect man

[notoepik]

Well, I should have added humility

And an age limit. I usually go with the old adage, "Get them young, and train them right!"

Besides, I am taken. Too bad for you And too old, too bad for me

[Maritime Q-Scout]

Originally Posted by notoepik

Too bad for you And too old, too bad for me

Whatever helps you sleep at night

oh and double check what I wrote, I never said I was "the man" I'm humble like that

[J pold]

All women are attracted to the Alpha Male IMO, a guy who portrays he has the highest survival and replication value the characteristics of the Alpha male are

1) Social Proof
2) Confidence
3) Well groomed
4) Humor
5) Connection

Also leadership which falls under confidence but it’s a major part of it; women are attracted to the leader of men

Notice “looks” doesn’t make it on that list, the common misconception is that you have to be good looking above all things not true, portray those 6 characteristics and looks is completely arbitrary IMO

[notoepik]

Originally Posted by Maritime Q-Scout

Now I'm not saying I'm the man... but I am

Yes you did!

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by hulkrogan

You know how lots of women say that a sense of humour is really important to them?

I hope you aren't one of them because my comment was merely a joke

I'm well aware of the status of your comment being a joke. However, it is a thing that many men seem to bring up, and many may be concerned about.

Erectile disfunction however... that's an issue. We pretend that doesn't matter, but it does. Get the little blue pill already.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by FireFly

I'm well aware of the status of your comment being a joke. However, it is a thing that many men seem to bring up, and many may be concerned about.

Erectile disfunction however... that's an issue. We pretend that doesn't matter, but it does. Get the little blue pill already.

What if the little white military deploys without reliable intelligence?

[Winsor_Pilates]

Me

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by rubecube

What if the little white military deploys without reliable intelligence?

Lol. I don't think I've ever heard of it in that manner... but if your army gets deployed too early, you're just going to have to take matters into your own hands.

[TheyCallMeBruce]

Originally Posted by rubecube

What if the little white military deploys without reliable intelligence?

Originally Posted by Winsor_Pilates

Me

I see.....?

[Dion]

I didn't make this up!

A Czech study finds that women who are ovulating tend to prefer the smell from the armpits of dominant men.

Jan Havlicek of Charles University in Prague got 48 men to complete questionnaires that measured their social dominance, Nature reports. The men were also asked to collect their underarm sweat by wearing cotton pads.

A group of 65 women then sniffed the pads.

http://www.physorg.com/news5014.html

[enthused]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Erectile disfunction however... that's an issue. We pretend that doesn't matter, but it does. Get the little blue pill already.

Eeesh, I think that's men AND women's biggest fear... hah.

Anyways, I don't think there is any one way to rank all those qualities, it really depends on the person. While I don't consider looks to be the most important thing in a guy, they're still the first thing I notice. I think that's the same for everyone. However, a guy who's not a complete looker could still win me over with an outgoing personality and a good sense of humor.

Basically, a good balance between all those qualities would be prime. Although it appears that all the guys with that perfect balance are hiding out somewhere with unicorns and other mysterious creatures, cause I sure as hell haven't found any!

[Flames09]

Chemistry has to be first I dont know how anyone can be with someone who they dont have chemistry with. Second in line would have to be how smart he is I dont like idiots and I'm sorry but I do look for a guy who has an education beyond a highschool diploma and that ties in with money he has to make a decent salary he doesn't need to be rich but a healthy living (remember money is the number 1 cause of divorce). Also if a guy isn't smart or doesn't match up too you how do you hold a conversation? Third thing is a good sense of humor considering I'm a very sarcastic person and you need to be able to take a joke, fourth in line would be looks and you dont need to be a hunk to get my attention if you score well in the things I mentioned before because IMO personality makes you hotter, obviously I wouldnt touch a guy who is/looks dirty but average is good enough. I really didn't know where to place honesty and morals because that's just a given if you're not honest why on earth would I even go near you? Anyways I guess overall you need a bit of everything.

[edn88]

If you really want to know what attracts women to men, find Desmond Morris's the Human Animal... It will tell you everything you ever need to know.