Hitting on Women Thread v2.0

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by Flames_Gimp

i dunno if they want an ahole...but i know what they dont want..and thats a dude in a chair!

Don't worry. If I get shut down next time we may have to try the "drown the gimp" tactic.. and you might not make it out of this one.

So there is light at the end of the tunnel

As for this thread.. Bunch of whiners, get back to talking about me

j/k..

Thursday will be the "how yu duuing" moment, after that I leave it alone
EDIT: and by leave it alone, I mean if it's a no, then I'll tell her if she's ever interested it's in her hands.. and not bring it up again.

[Winsor_Pilates]

Shall we start taking bets for Thursday? I think he gets a date.

[J pold]

I bet he goes home and beats it like it owes him money...

And still gets the date

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Don't worry. If I get shut down next time we may have to try the "drown the gimp" tactic.. and you might not make it out of this one.

So there is light at the end of the tunnel

As for this thread.. Bunch of whiners, get back to talking about me

j/k..

Thursday will be the "how yu duuing" moment, after that I leave it alone
EDIT: and by leave it alone, I mean if it's a no, then I'll tell her if she's ever interested it's in her hands.. and not bring it up again.

You need to ask her if she wants to go out for those drinks she mentioned... that would be my advice.

[icarus]

Originally Posted by FireFly

You need to ask her if she wants to go out for those drinks she mentioned... that would be my advice.

Agreed. She has no doubt reconsidered the situation and already knows what her response would be if you were to bring it up again.

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by icarus

Agreed. She has no doubt reconsidered the situation and already knows what her response would be if you were to bring it up again.

Yup, I'd agree..

So, bring it up...

Rejection - pending how it goes.. ah well leave it open, but I'm not asking again

Acceptance - we go for a drink Friday or Saturday, then maybe flames game the following Thursday vs. Colorado

[calf]

Originally Posted by Winsor_Pilates

Shall we start taking bets for Thursday? I think he gets a date.

my bet is he doesn't...but he will eventually (in a month or two).

I'll wager an avatar of my/your choosing!

[rockstar]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Well if all you want is poon, what difference does it make if she's nice or not, or you're nice or not? Sheesh.

I have never heard a girl say that word before....(or I guess I should say, I have never...seen....a [supposed] girl type that before)!!

[fanforever1986]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Yup, I'd agree..

So, bring it up...

Rejection - pending how it goes.. ah well leave it open, but I'm not asking again

Acceptance - we go for a drink Friday or Saturday, then maybe flames game the following Thursday vs. Colorado

I dont know how long your status has been 'chick magnet', but i just noticed and spit my timbit out all over the screen.

[Caged Great]

Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.

This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.

I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.

[Phanuthier]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

And men aren't hypocrites? Men tend to say they want some down to earth nice, fun girl to be with but then they look right past those girls to the barely dressed, plastic looking barbie type girls that live in tanning salons or nail salons or any other kind of salon you can think of.... There are hypocrites on both sides of the fence.

Good thread Wookie

Just wanted to chime into this post... I've dated barbie's before, they're attractive to look at, but boring to listen to when you go out on a date. I gave up on that route years ago, dated the "nice, fun girl" for 2 years (and got to know some real cute girls, attractive, but not interested) and now another "nice fun girl" for about 1 year... wouldn't dump her for Elisha Cuthbert. If you want to see good looking girls, there's always the internet (all jokes aside...) and for me, I want someone who I enjoy being with, not a trophy.

[Phanuthier]

Originally Posted by Mango

Very true. No matter male or female, there are some great places to meet people. It's especially great to meet someone who is participating/interested in something you are. For example, I met a lot of great people through playing organized soccer, attending photography workshops, and even university. The nice thing is you get to see a person in their true form. It's not the facade of a bar. Best of all, you'll find you have things in common and it'll make conversation much easier.

I agree. The bar girls seem to be a little cocky and into themselves... they'll seem interested for a while, but roam around to get attention. Either that, or their upgrading lol. I found most of the girls I've dated through simply volunteering and soccer, the usual "friends friend" and university.

[Phanuthier]

Originally Posted by Caged Great

Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.

This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.

I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.

Tell her how you feel

Really, you're not asking her out on a date or anything. Just tell her how you feel and leave it at that - if things move forward, great. If they don't, then at least you got that off your chest. Just don't keep on pursuing her weeks and weeks later... like a guy thats going after the girl I'm dating. Sucks for her, somewhat funny and ego boosting for me.

How do you think I got the girl I'm dating now although... karma's a bitch, so...

[Dion]

Originally Posted by Caged Great

Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.

This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.

I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.

If your sincere about not wanting to interfere you may have to reconsider your friendship with her. I say that because it's obvious you being around her is causing her some mixed feelings. Maybe tell her she needs to distance herself from you until she get's things sorted out in her head.

If it was me I would not want to be a cause of a breakup.

[icarus]

Originally Posted by Caged Great

Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.

This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.

I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.

I think in that situation you just keep things status quo for the time being. Let her have her internal debates and don't get involved in that. You don't want to be an accessory to breaking up her relationship and you also don't want to screw things up with her by saying something. You should just do nothing for the time being and let her sort through things on her own. If you try to influence things you will just make things more complicated for her. Leave it alone and soon enough she'll come around all on her own.

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by icarus

I think in that situation you just keep things status quo for the time being. Let her have her internal debates and don't get involved in that. You don't want to be an accessory to breaking up her relationship and you also don't want to screw things up with her by saying something. You should just do nothing for the time being and let her sort through things on her own. If you try to influence things you will just make things more complicated for her. Leave it alone and soon enough she'll come around all on her own.

well... that would be the nice thing to do. I am not saying that it isn't what you should do, but do what you feel you can live with. I am currently pursuing a girl with a boyfriend and right now it seems that I am probably going to come out on top. I've been completely respectful of their relationship, except when we are drunk together, we dont do anything physical but we do flirt, talk about things, etc... Couple things you have to remember if you go this route. First, if you break up a relationship be prepared for a relationship. It is highly likely she's going to want to be in a relationship with you if she ended one for you. Actually there isn't a couple things there's only one. Icarus' approach is the nice guy approach and you can never go wrong with that approach. My approach is the you only live once approach and you don't want to potentially miss a great opportunity to fall in love...

[FlamingLonghorn]

a quick addendum... if her relationship with her boyfriend was good than she wouldn't be having mixed feelings about it. You are most likely not going to be the reason she breaks up with him, just the catalyst...

Edit... and to prove this the girl i am talking to right now said this very thing to me last night.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

And men aren't hypocrites? Men tend to say they want some down to earth nice, fun girl to be with but then they look right past those girls to the barely dressed, plastic looking barbie type girls that live in tanning salons or nail salons or any other kind of salon you can think of.... There are hypocrites on both sides of the fence.

Actually, we want to date the down to earth girl but we want to fool around with the barbie doll. If I'm going to the bar to pick up a girl then I'm looking for the one who's most likely to put out by the end of the night. Nice down to earth girls rarely do that. I'm not really looking for a relationship when I go to the bar. A nice down to earth girl is who I want to have a relationship with and not just plow and never call again.

[Flames_Gimp]

Originally Posted by rockstar

I have never...seen....a [supposed] girl type that before)!!

oh shes a girl i garauntee it.

[Flames_Gimp]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Don't worry. If I get shut down next time we may have to try the "drown the gimp" tactic.. and you might not make it out of this one.

ok, im prepared to take one for the team...

im working on a girl at the dome...shall i post an update too? or start my own thread?