Hitting on Women Thread v2.0

[Titan]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Hmmm,

... she was freezing, in a swimsuit...

Anybody else have impure thoughts with this visual?

Overall, good job Wookie. Keep playing it cool.

[J pold]

Originally Posted by hah

This book is a good read for the situation you are in.

http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrati.../dp/0060554738

If anything it will help you feel more confident.

Just ask the girl out again and try and get an answer.

If yes go for the date. If no move on.

Don't waste any more of your time on her.

Good luck

Flawless book I am reading it right now, in fact ill give you some advice right from it

Ok what is the number one thing that motivates most men? There sex drive…

So if you need a little push to bring up the question again try this, you said that you see her every week and half well from the day you saw her last don’t uhhh how should I say this…don’t yank your chain…forget that it owes you money…pretty much there is no need to BEAT yourself up over it until the next time you see her by that time your sex drive will be at an all time high hell you will probably hit on anything the moves and if she still says no, well at least you got something to look forward to

[feartheflames]

Originally Posted by Mango

Not usually. I would much rather prefer a honest and sincere guy. I find cocky guys to be very unattractive. You have no idea how much it means to find a guy who'll listen to you and just wants to get to know you.

Smile and be sincere. I won't speak for all the women, but I prefer a guy who wants to get to know me first and perhaps the relationship will progess. Something like grabbing some coffee or a quick bite to eat. Talk and get to know her. You have nothing to lose. If things don't work out romantically, you'll have a good friend and honestly, there's nothing wrong with that.

Mango, perfectly said

[vanisleflamesfan]

Originally Posted by J pold

Flawless book I am reading it right now, in fact ill give you some advice right from it

Ok what is the number one thing that motivates most men? There sex drive…

So if you need a little push to bring up the question again try this, you said that you see her every week and half well from the day you saw her last don’t uhhh how should I say this…don’t yank your chain…forget that it owes you money…pretty much there is no need to BEAT yourself up over it until the next time you see her by that time your sex drive will be at an all time high hell you will probably hit on anything the moves and if she still says no, well at least you got something to look forward to

Umm... I don't understand... could you be a bit clearer?

[J pold]

Originally Posted by feartheflames

Mango, perfectly said

Hardly women are the biggest hypocrites in the world they will all tell you they want the “nice guy” the one that will listen to them, get to know them who is kind blah blah, but the fact remains what the say they want and what they want are two very different things girls want the *******, the dick, the one that is going to treat them bad its just a fact of nature, if you are the “nice guy” it gets a lot of friend who are girls but no girlfriends

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by J pold

Hardly women are the biggest hypocrites in the world they will all tell you they want the “nice guy” the one that will listen to them, get to know them who is kind blah blah, but the fact remains what the say they want and what they want are two very different things girls want the *******, the dick, the one that is going to treat them bad its just a fact of nature, if you are the “nice guy” it gets a lot of friend who are girls but no girlfriends

Wow. Someone seems to be a wee pinch bitter. I would beg to disagree. As another female who agrees with Mango, I've actually been dating strictly 'nice guys' for the past year. Some I've gone out with again, some I haven't, but in no case did I decide not to see them again due to them being too nice. There has to also be the elusive chemistry... Nice guys also have to be sexy too, sometimes demanding, not a pushover. There's a difference between being a nice guy who is not a pushover and being an *******. Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

[hah]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

Good for you!!!

[OILFAN #81]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

Really firefly? Would have never guessed....

[SpitFire40]

HAHA, Firefly is so blunt...

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by OILFAN #81

Really firefly? Would have never guessed....

I'm not sure where that came from... are you insinuating something? J Pold said, "girls want.... the dick..." I'm saying yes we do, but you don't need to be one.

[OILFAN #81]

Originally Posted by FireFly

I'm not sure where that came from... are you insinuating something? J Pold said, "girls want.... the dick..." I'm saying yes we do, but you don't need to be one.

Kik, I was just pretty much saying what Spitfire (Jordan) said in the post below mine.

[J pold]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Wow. Someone seems to be a wee pinch bitter. I would beg to disagree. As another female who agrees with Mango, I've actually been dating strictly 'nice guys' for the past year. Some I've gone out with again, some I haven't, but in no case did I decide not to see them again due to them being too nice. There has to also be the elusive chemistry... Nice guys also have to be sexy too, sometimes demanding, not a pushover. There's a difference between being a nice guy who is not a pushover and being an *******. Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

Ha-ha perhaps I am a bit bitter, I have played the nice guy card for far too long and it’s got me no where, I think it mostly relates to my age group I am only 20 so for the most part I date girls my age and that is what they want, Perhaps dick is a the wrong word but there is a reason why “nice guys finish last” trust me most girl I talk to my age agree, as much as they say they want the nice guy. The always find themselves being attracted to the jerks perhaps you are the exception to the rule Mrs. FireFly if so than I wish every girl was like you us nice guys would no longer be in last

[FireFly]

Originally Posted by J pold

Ha-ha perhaps I am a bit bitter, I have played the nice guy card for far too long and it’s got me no where, I think it mostly relates to my age group I am only 20 so for the most part I date girls my age and that is what they want, Perhaps dick is a the wrong word but there is a reason why “nice guys finish last” trust me most girl I talk to my age agree, as much as they say they want the nice guy. The always find themselves being attracted to the jerks perhaps you are the exception to the rule Mrs. FireFly if so than I wish every girl was like you us nice guys would no longer be in last

That's the problem though, J pold. You're asking girls your own age. How many 20 year old girls want a long term, stable relationship? Are they looking for a fling? Do they even know? At 20, I had no idea what the heck I wanted. Be patient. There are 20 year olds that are looking for stability, but you may not find someone until you (and they) are 25 when they're more stable themselves. Perhaps try looking at older ladies that know what they want.

And I'm NOT a Mrs. That's Ms. to you!

[Eastern Girl]

Originally Posted by J pold

Hardly women are the biggest hypocrites in the world they will all tell you they want the “nice guy” the one that will listen to them, get to know them who is kind blah blah, but the fact remains what the say they want and what they want are two very different things girls want the *******, the dick, the one that is going to treat them bad its just a fact of nature, if you are the “nice guy” it gets a lot of friend who are girls but no girlfriends

And men aren't hypocrites? Men tend to say they want some down to earth nice, fun girl to be with but then they look right past those girls to the barely dressed, plastic looking barbie type girls that live in tanning salons or nail salons or any other kind of salon you can think of.... There are hypocrites on both sides of the fence.

[Mango]

Originally Posted by J pold

Hardly women are the biggest hypocrites in the world they will all tell you they want the “nice guy” the one that will listen to them, get to know them who is kind blah blah, but the fact remains what the say they want and what they want are two very different things girls want the *******, the dick, the one that is going to treat them bad its just a fact of nature, if you are the “nice guy” it gets a lot of friend who are girls but no girlfriends

You don't know me, so don't speak on my behalf or on behalf of other women. You have no idea what I want or don't want. I don't cateogrize men as all being alike. Consider doing the same for women.

[Bill Bumface]

Originally Posted by FireFly

That's the problem though, J pold. You're asking girls your own age. How many 20 year old girls want a long term, stable relationship? Are they looking for a fling? Do they even know? At 20, I had no idea what the heck I wanted. Be patient. There are 20 year olds that are looking for stability, but you may not find someone until you (and they) are 25 when they're more stable themselves. Perhaps try looking at older ladies that know what they want.

And I'm NOT a Mrs. That's Ms. to you!

Take the hint J pold!

[OILFAN #81]

Originally Posted by Mango

You don't know me, so don't speak on my behalf or on behalf of other women. You have no idea what I want or don't want. I don't cateogrize men as all being alike. Consider doing the same for women.

Oh no you didn't (waves hand)........MMMMMMMMMM HMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Watch yo self.

You go Mango, you tell the world!

Barqs has bite.

KIK! KIK KIK!

[vanisleflamesfan]

Originally Posted by FireFly

Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

Post of the YEAR!!!

[OILFAN #81]

Originally Posted by hulkrogan

Take the hint J pold!

KIK!!!!!!!!!!! KIK KIK!

[OILFAN #81]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

And men aren't hypocrites? Men tend to say they want some down to earth nice, fun girl to be with but then they look right past those girls to the barely dressed, plastic looking barbie type girls that live in tanning salons or nail salons or any other kind of salon you can think of.... There are hypocrites on both sides of the fence.

Nah, here's where you are wrong Elly....... men want the down to earth, nice, fun girl who is barely dressed and looks like a plastic barbie.