Hitting on Women Thread v2.0

[Burninator]

Good thread.

Originally Posted by Mango

Not usually. I would much rather prefer a honest and sincere guy. I find cocky guys to be very unattractive. You have no idea how much it means to find a guy who'll listen to you and just wants to get to know you.

I know you can't speak for all girls. But I can't even count the number of girls that I have talked to that say that and seem to mean it. But will date the total opposite of what they claim to want to date. Which are cocky guys that turn out to be jerks and don't listen to them. Then after the fact complain to me that they can't find a nice guy that listens to them. Well it's getting harder to sympathize when they are hypocrites. But I digress.

I know they are more women on this board that give advice to the guys that always seem to get stuck in the "he's a nice guy, but I wouldn't date him, it would be like dating my bother" category.

[fanforever1986]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

It does depend on where she works. I worked at a lingerie store and I got hit on by men and it always seemed very creepy to me. I never really took it too seriously either. I just figured being in a room full of ladies undergarments maybe put ideas in their heads and they got kind of flirty as a result.

If you are really concerned about asking her out at work for fear of getting her in trouble with her boss or seeming insincere or whatnot, wait for her to get off work and ask her then. Bottom line though, if you like her and you think she likes you then just ask.

Not gonna lie, I read this entire post thinking it was a guy, man I laughed hard.

[Mango]

Originally Posted by Burninator

I know they are more women on this board that give advice to the guys that always seem to get stuck in the "he's a nice guy, but I wouldn't date him, it would be like dating my bother" category.

That's fair. I certainly won't speak on behalf of all females. I hope there's a day when nice guys and girls finish first!

Good luck in your quest, Wookie!

[JiriHrdina]

Wow. Sounds like wide disagreement on whether or not he should ask her out during or after work.

Poll time!

[Phaneuf3]

chicken out ftw!

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by Phaneuf3

i don't care how desperate i get - child molestation just ain't my bag.

Why, are they fighting back now?

[Tron_fdc]

For the record this thread is hilarious. The poll is actually adding to the humour.

Can we organise a CP date jihad? Maybe get a bunch of us to fake drown in the pool, Wookie saves us, and then on the way to the car after her shift a bunch of cpers attack the girl, and once again Wookie jumps in to save the day by scissor kicking everybody.

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by Tron_fdc

For the record this thread is hilarious. The poll is actually adding to the humour.

Can we organise a CP date jihad? Maybe get a bunch of us to fake drown in the pool, Wookie saves us, and then on the way to the car after her shift a bunch of cpers attack the girl, and once again Wookie jumps in to save the day by scissor kicking everybody.

while everyone's distracted, i'll just ask her out myself

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by rubecube

Why, are they fighting back now?

fighting back? LOL! have you seen how some of those little hussies dress these days?!

[Burninator]

Originally Posted by Phaneuf3

while everyone's distracted, i'll just ask her out myself

Judging by your suggestions in this thread you'll be luck if you don't end up in jail or at the bottom of the pool.

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by Burninator

Judging by your suggestions in this thread you'll be luck if you don't end up in jail or at the bottom of the pool.

jail might be the answer - as much free lovin' as you can handle!

[Wookie]

Wow - thread gotten totally out of hand!

I hope no one here swims at The Talisman Centre and spills the beans

[CaptainCrunch]

Originally Posted by return to the red

I say ask her out while at work. You see her only what once a week twice MAYBE. When the hell else are you going to do it? To me the waiting for her to get off work seems kind of creepy but who knows, she might find it "special" that you took time out of your schedule to come ask her out.

Funny you should mention asking women out at the gym because I was just reading an article the other day at the gym about this very topic. Apparantly it's the best place to do it because it's so easy to strike up a conversation or making an introduction (asking for a spot, etc.) plus you know that you share the same interests. The do warn about asking women out who go to the gym with as much make-up on as if they were going to the bar and are afraid to sweat (what the hell are you going to the gym for anyhow?)

Maybe I'm wrong on this, but I really don't go to the gym to socialize, and it bugs the hell out of me when two people are yaking away and taking a station that I want to use. Besides people looking good at the gym is a fantasy as they're usually sweating like pigs and smell like a piece of cheese thats been stuck in the fridge for 6 years.

There has to be a better place to meet girls.

[Phaneuf3]

hay guys! guess what? i just got back from the talisman centre, i'm taking a cute little lifeguard that works there out for drinks this saturday!!

[Tron_fdc]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Wow - thread gotten totally out of hand!

I hope no one here swims at The Talisman Centre and spills the beans

Actually, that's where I swim and work out. I play rugby with one of the lifeguards there as well. Would you like some recon work done?

[Tron_fdc]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

There has to be a better place to meet girls.

You've obviously never been to the "Ripped" class at Talisman have you? If I could meet 1% of the girls who do that class I'd die a happy, fulfilled man.

[ken0042]

Originally Posted by Phaneuf3

hay guys! guess what? i just got back from the talisman centre, i'm taking a cute little lifeguard that works there out for drinks this saturday!!

Good for you.

Do you really think Wookie is that dumb to post the actual pool?

[return to the red]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Maybe I'm wrong on this, but I really don't go to the gym to socialize, and it bugs the hell out of me when two people are yaking away and taking a station that I want to use. Besides people looking good at the gym is a fantasy as they're usually sweating like pigs and smell like a piece of cheese thats been stuck in the fridge for 6 years.

There has to be a better place to meet girls.

I'm not talking about socializing just easier to walk up to a girl and ask for a spot then to juts walk up and stand there awkwardly. I never went there to socialize and I find it funny when people spend more time working out their mouths then their bodies.

My point about the looks was at the gym you can tell what a girl really looks like without the make-up. If you think a girl is hot when she's sweatin up a storm wait till you take her out!

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Maybe I'm wrong on this, but I really don't go to the gym to socialize, and it bugs the hell out of me when two people are yaking away and taking a station that I want to use. Besides people looking good at the gym is a fantasy as they're usually sweating like pigs and smell like a piece of cheese thats been stuck in the fridge for 6 years.

There has to be a better place to meet girls.

See, I'd agree with you, except I'm there a lot. Some friendly smiles do take place. You obviously might meet someone with something in common, and why not? If you are slightly sweaty, or with a tinge of smell, they're probably in the same situation.

There's gotta be a way in which it's appropriate, or that it can be done without being annoying, intrusive, or interrupting.

Just a quick hello, or something.. Then if it goes well, maybe chat a few times, then see where that could lead.

I agree about people yakking away for endless amounts of time monopolizing equipment though.

With talking to someone at the gym, if things are going poorly, you've got a good out.. "okay, well I should get back to work, I'll talk to you later"

[Cowperson]

Originally Posted by Tron_fdc

You've obviously never been to the "Ripped" class at Talisman have you? If I could meet 1% of the girls who do that class I'd die a happy, fulfilled man.

I'm a married old fud . . . . . but its amazing the preponderence of shapely, fit, shapely women, young and old, you will find at the start line of a 10 km, half-marathon or marathon race.

Cowperson