Hitting on Women Thread v2.0

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

It does depend on where she works. I worked at a lingerie store and I got hit on by men and it always seemed very creepy to me. I never really took it too seriously either. I just figured being in a room full of ladies undergarments maybe put ideas in their heads and they got kind of flirty as a result.

If you are really concerned about asking her out at work for fear of getting her in trouble with her boss or seeming insincere or whatnot, wait for her to get off work and ask her then. Bottom line though, if you like her and you think she likes you then just ask.

You wouldn't be creeped out if some guy hung out outside of your work to ask you out after you got off. If I was a girl in that situation I might call the cops...

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by RedHot25

Why can't you give the specifics?

I say ask her out, unless like others have said there is some weird situation/setting - e.g. like Eastern Girl has said.

That is, unless it is someone on CP

Fine then.. Lifeguard at a pool I frequent, I was hoping the analogy, would spring some similar analogies and I wouldn't have to be so specific

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by Sowa

You wouldn't be creeped out if some guy hung out outside of your work to ask you out after you got off. If I was a girl in that situation I might call the cops...

Exactly!!

[RedHot25]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Fine then.. Lifeguard at a pool I frequent, I was hoping the analogy, would spring some similar analogies and I wouldn't have to be so specific

Ha well thats no biggie!

Why not, ask her out. Unless you think doing that may make your time or her time more awkward at the pool. At the very least, if things don't work out, you go and find a new pool to swim at....and new lifeguards, too !

[JiriHrdina]

Originally Posted by fotze

Well it depends, are you fat? Just kidding. I've never asked a girl out in my life, too chicken, so I am of no help.

How the hell did you get married?

Funny/Creepy story from a friend. He had no fear asking girls out - would do it all the time regardless of the situation. For instance he was behind a girl in line at Safeways, when she gave her phone number for the Safeway Club thingy, he remembered it and called her when he got home and said "hey I'm the guy that was behind you in Safeway...wanna go out".

Now maybe its just me, but does that not strike you as a little creepy? Partculalry since they didn't even talk at Safeway.

And the girl said yes.

So what do I know.

[ken0042]

One thing to keep in mind; if she's a lifegaurd she might be working without her wedding ring on. Are you sure she is single?

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by ken0042

One thing to keep in mind; if she's a lifegaurd she might be working without her wedding ring on. Are you sure she is single?

Who cares? That's just something more to worry about. Hopefully if she's married she'll let him know. He already said he's not worried about being shot down.

[calf]

Originally Posted by ken0042

One thing to keep in mind; if she's a lifegaurd she might be working without her wedding ring on. Are you sure she is single?

wahh waaaaahhhhhhh

[Wookie]

She's pretty young, and in school, so odds are in my favour, however if answer comes back as "married" that'd be the best shut down, not akward, not insulting etc.

Actually maybe if she said she was gay, that'd be pretty awesome too!

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by MainFlame

Fake drown.

saw this in a movie once - slip her the tounge when she's giving mouth to mouth.



and when i first saw this thread i thought it said "hitting women" and i got all excited. turned out to be interesting anyway

[Eddie Bronze]

Originally Posted by Wookie

Actually maybe if she said she was gay, that'd be pretty awesome too!

If she is, make sure you get a piece of that action!

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by Eddie Bronze

If she is, make sure you get a piece of that action!

post NooDZ

[JiriHrdina]

Originally Posted by MainFlame

Really?

Did it work out?

Naw. At the time my friend was about 25/26 and turns out the girl had just turned 18.

Which I realize only adds to the creepy value of the story.

[Eastern Girl]

Originally Posted by Sowa

You wouldn't be creeped out if some guy hung out outside of your work to ask you out after you got off. If I was a girl in that situation I might call the cops...

Well, again, it depends. If you have spoken to this girl and she knows who you are, I wouldn't necessarily consider it creepy. He could casually ask her when she gets off work and come back then. He could even say to her that he didn't want to put her in an awkward situation at work, so he waited til she was off. I am sure she would appreciate that. It's thoughtful and honest. Girls like that.

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by JiriHrdina

Naw. At the time my friend was about 25/26 and turns out the girl had just turned 18.

Which I realize only adds to the creepy value of the story.

Yeah that is pretty creepy. I hooked up with this chick over a year ago at a bar (mind you legal drinking age in Texas is 21), found out from another girl I dated that's friends with her that she just turned 19 which means that I messed around with a girl who just turned 18 or worse was 17. But it can't be really that creepy if she presented herself as at least 21, right?...right?

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

Well, again, it depends. If you have spoken to this girl and she knows who you are, I wouldn't necessarily consider it creepy. He could casually ask her when she gets off work and come back then. He could even say to her that he didn't want to put her in an awkward situation at work, so he waited til she was off. I am sure she would appreciate that. It's thoughtful and honest. Girls like that.

To difficult! Logistically, populated area, hanging around would be weird, then they might not leave right as building closes, then do you wait outside? Then they wander out with someone... Then you have two people to choke out with "ether"

[Wookie]

Originally Posted by Sowa

Yeah that is pretty creepy. I hooked up with this chick over a year ago at a bar (mind you legal drinking age in Texas is 21), found out from another girl I dated that's friends with her that she just turned 19 which means that I messed around with a girl who just turned 18 or worse was 17. But it can't be really that creepy if she presented herself as at least 21, right?...right?

Happened to me one, same situation except at a calgary bar.. She was way underage..

[PYroMaNiaC]

Just ask. You are making it far more complicated than it needs to be. If you really would like to have some privacy, find our when she starts, not when she gets off, and show up for your swim about that time.

I think the creepy factor only comes in if you wear a Speedo for your swim. Otherwise, just ask. Make it casual - like coffee or lunch for a first date, and then if she says no thank you, it's no biggie.

[FlamingLonghorn]

Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

It's thoughtful and honest. Girls like that.

Well from my experiences that isn't necessarily true... Girls like cocky *******s...

[Phaneuf3]

Originally Posted by Sowa

Yeah that is pretty creepy. I hooked up with this chick over a year ago at a bar (mind you legal drinking age in Texas is 21), found out from another girl I dated that's friends with her that she just turned 19 which means that I messed around with a girl who just turned 18 or worse was 17. But it can't be really that creepy if she presented herself as at least 21, right?...right?

forwarded to the fbi

Originally Posted by Wookie

Happened to me one, same situation except at a calgary bar.. She was way underage..

forwarded to the police