01-14-2007, 11:27 AM
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#21
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Calgary
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Originally Posted by @theCBE
I'm the complete opposite.. they only way I could respect the guy anymore is if he followed the prank up with even more humilation. Like a nudie pics of her up on the web, forwarded to all her family .. or something like that.
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I'd start with forwarding the link of the convo to the boss' wife, along with a nice letter detailing the situation - why ruin just the slut's life? Ruin the boss' life too, so they can live happily together.
Did she get a promotion after her X-mas party???
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01-14-2007, 12:01 PM
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#22
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Calgary
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Originally Posted by I_H8_Crawford
I'd start with forwarding the link of the convo to the boss' wife, along with a nice letter detailing the situation - why ruin just the slut's life? Ruin the boss' life too, so they can live happily together.
Did she get a promotion after her X-mas party??? 
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Yep, I agree the ex girl friend got everything she deserved. I would send the link to the Bosses Wife as well.
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01-14-2007, 02:13 PM
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#23
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n00b!
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Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch
I don't know, call me old fashion, but I think it was pretty gutless of the guy in using somebody else to break up with his girl for him.
I've never had respect for friends of mine who have done breakups over the phone, or with notes or whatever. If you want to break up with somebody, just go and do it, face to face.
I'm not being sympathetic to the girl, but you have to have some compassion when your destroying somebody's life even if they did cheat on you.
What happens if this girl kills herself because she's been totally gutted by some dweeb on the radio who mentions her name and destroys her on the phone.
I actually think all parties involved are idiots and losers.
I mean the DJ is probably a bitter fat bald guy who loves doing the breakup because the only woman that he's seen naked was either his mother, or something made out of plastic.
The girls a loser because she basically cheated in public, and then was excited because she got away with it, and her boyfriend was going to marry her.
The boyfriend is a slimy cowardly weasel because he dosen't have the balls to do the job himself.
Losers all of them.
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Hmm... that's an interesting take on the situation Crunch.
Personally, I always try to treat everyone with the respect you are mentioning in your post, but when they go past that line which I think the ex-girlfriend did by cheating on her boyfriend of four years, I think they've proven that they don't deserve that respect anymore.
Respect needs to be earned once it's lost, in my opinion.
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01-14-2007, 02:30 PM
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#24
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: NYYC
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Originally Posted by HelloHockeyFans
Personally, I always try to treat everyone with the respect you are mentioning in your post, but when they go past that line which I think the ex-girlfriend did by cheating on her boyfriend of four years, I think they've proven that they don't deserve that respect anymore.
Respect needs to be earned once it's lost, in my opinion.
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Definitely agree. Everyone should be treated with common courtesy from the start, but once that respect is taken advantage of, there really is no need for it.
This girl deserves to be humiliated. She is not the victim here. The last thing she needs is for it to be a complete cakewalk without any consequences, so she can go do it to some other poor bloke.
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01-14-2007, 03:27 PM
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#25
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Crushed
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: The Sc'ank
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Only thing that really bothers me about this whole thing is that men rarely get dragged through the mud like this when they cheat. Why is that? I am not defending the girl at all, I think cheaters are selfish little buggers, but it just bothers me when only the women seem to get publicly ragged on for it.
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01-14-2007, 04:15 PM
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#26
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Norm!
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Originally Posted by Eastern Girl
Only thing that really bothers me about this whole thing is that men rarely get dragged through the mud like this when they cheat. Why is that? I am not defending the girl at all, I think cheaters are selfish little buggers, but it just bothers me when only the women seem to get publicly ragged on for it.
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Surprisingly as a guy, I do agree with that. Maybe its because more woman do breakups in a more private manner then men who have a grenade effect on thier personal issues.
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