03-14-2019, 03:33 PM
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That Crazy Guy at the Bus Stop
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Springfield Penitentiary
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Devastating for Evander and his family. Condolences.
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03-14-2019, 03:36 PM
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#23
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: SW Ontario
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Terrible. Nobody should have to go through that.
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03-14-2019, 03:48 PM
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#24
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Scoring Winger
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: stuck in BC watching the nucks
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No parent should ever outlive their child. So sad for anyone in that situation.
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03-14-2019, 03:50 PM
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#25
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Backup Goalie
Join Date: Jan 2019
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Reading this as I'm anxiously sitting in the hospital awaiting my second child. ��
God speed
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03-14-2019, 03:59 PM
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#26
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Franchise Player
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Ugh that's devastating. Thoughts and prayers to him and his family.
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03-14-2019, 04:06 PM
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Edmonton,AB
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Ugh horrible news
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03-14-2019, 04:20 PM
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#28
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Franchise Player
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Horrible news, hope him and his wife can find some peace after time, no parent should ever have to lose a child
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03-14-2019, 04:22 PM
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Powerplay Quarterback
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Pigeon Lake
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My Wife and I lost a child at about the same number of weeks. Was a devastating experience for her, especially as it happened while she was working as a nurse in the ER. Her coworkers were great but it was really tough for her to go back to work.
Hopefully they can come through this with the support of their friends and family but it is not something I would wish on anyone. I wish them all the best.
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03-14-2019, 04:23 PM
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Powerplay Quarterback
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Pigeon Lake
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GIODUDE
Reading this as I'm anxiously sitting in the hospital awaiting my second child. ��
God speed
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Good luck! Hope everything goes great for Mom and Baby! Congratulations in advance!
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03-14-2019, 04:27 PM
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#1 Goaltender
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Richmond, BC
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Feel awful for Kane.
(Thanks SL)
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Last edited by evman150; 03-14-2019 at 04:34 PM.
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03-14-2019, 04:45 PM
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: Toronto
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Quote:
Originally Posted by undercoverbrother
Miscarriages can be very difficult. The female can often feel responsible, even when they have done everything "right" with their pregnancy.
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My friend dealt with one recently and this is exactly how she felt. Feel so horrible for her and that time was not an easy time for her.
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03-14-2019, 04:47 PM
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#33
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Franchise Player
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So sad to hear. I wish them peace at this devastating time.
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03-14-2019, 04:56 PM
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#2 960 Prankster
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: In a Pub
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Many posters here know my past, this devastating news rips off bandages of wounds that will never heal. I know and understand all too well what the Kane family is going through. My thoughts are with them. Eva is looking over them now. 
Time go hug my two kids that are here.
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03-14-2019, 05:01 PM
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Barnet - North London
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My heart goes out to him and his wife.
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03-14-2019, 05:03 PM
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#1 Goaltender
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Terrible news.
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03-14-2019, 05:03 PM
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#37
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My wife and I went through a miscarriage
The wounds never fully heal. It becomes part of who you are as a person, individual and family.
I take comfort knowing that if we had not gone through that, we would not have my daughter. All paths lead to her - which is what matters to me.
It happens to a lot of families, and is talked about not enough. And when it is talked about some of the things people say are so ignorant.
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03-14-2019, 05:12 PM
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#38
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Brisbane
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Damn that is tragic. This is a good reminder that even if we don't like someone they are still humans who suffer from the same tragic circumstances as everyone and deserve our deepest sympathies.
I have noticed in recent times the topic of miscarriage becoming less taboo. Hopefully stories like this helps to further reduce the stigma and allows those who are also suffering to talk about it and receive support from friends and family.
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03-14-2019, 05:15 PM
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#39
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: The Bay Area
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Unimaginable how terrible this must be. Rest easy little one, thoughts to the family. 
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03-14-2019, 05:25 PM
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#1 Goaltender
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Richmond, BC
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Jiri Hrdina
My wife and I went through a miscarriage
The wounds never fully heal. It becomes part of who you are as a person, individual and family.
I take comfort knowing that if we had not gone through that, we would not have my daughter. All paths lead to her - which is what matters to me.
It happens to a lot of families, and is talked about not enough. And when it is talked about some of the things people say are so ignorant.
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People go through it in many different ways. I think it's also important to voice that it's okay if it's not a life-changing tragedy for you. I had a big fight in the past because certain family members made me feel as if I wasn't feeling sad enough about the whole thing.
Maybe some people appreciate the effusive condolences. But for some, it can instill a shame that you don't feel like you need the condolences, and you wonder what is wrong with you.
For what it's worth, I really like your attitude - "All paths lead to her". Absolutely. Bang on.
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