The issue is definitely a lot more complicated than this, however this statement smacks of "#### her til she likes it". Sex is a two way street, and establishing intimacy doesn't always require penis in vagina ####ing.
If your girl won't let you touch her because she feels gross and sweaty, or fat, or whatever the reason is, it's pretty tough to establish intimacy
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I dunno, in my experience, if someone is having sex with you because you want it and they are legitimately not in the mood, but love you enough to #### you anyway, it ends up being pretty mediocre sex.
I wish women liked exercising more, it makes them uncontrollably horny (in my experiences atleast) and would fix many a sexless relationship. You ever tried fending off a 10/10 horny female? Damn near impossible. I'd spend the money and time of a counselor at the gym
I wish women liked exercising more, it makes them uncontrollably horny (in my experiences atleast) and would fix many a sexless relationship. You ever tried fending off a 10/10 horny female? Damn near impossible. I'd spend the money and time of a counselor at the gym
I exercise on an almost daily basis...and it makes absolutely no difference to my libido. Uncontrollably horny? Where did you even hear that?
A handful of times I've gone running with different girlfriends, their libido went from 0 to rapemode. Obviously not all women are the same.
Really? Lots of the women in my gym walk around with this bitchy look where it appears they would rather rip your head off than have intimate relations.
Really? Lots of the women in my gym walk around with this bitchy look where it appears they would rather rip your head off than have intimate relations.
The x-factor there looks to be the girlfriend part of things. Girls, in general, dont like being hit on at the gym and you can't exactly blame them. A problem for men being that a lot of women look mighty fine in their workout attire.
But in AcGold's case, I would venture to say that the women are more turned on by the fact that their boyfriend is actually doing something with them, and that their boyfriend is striving to be healthy as well. Generally women are more focused on fitness than men, especially when in a relationship, and so to have a man actually enjoy working out with them would probably be something they're not used to.
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Really? Lots of the women in my gym walk around with this bitchy look where it appears they would rather rip your head off than have intimate relations.
I think this is because they're sick of dudes at the gym who think that their tank top and lulu tights are an open invitation to be hit on, when they're really just there to get a workout.
The x-factor there looks to be the girlfriend part of things. Girls, in general, dont like being hit on at the gym and you can't exactly blame them. A problem for men being that a lot of women look mighty fine in their workout attire.
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Odd, I had great success at the gym while attending U of C
The x-factor there looks to be the girlfriend part of things. Girls, in general, dont like being hit on at the gym and you can't exactly blame them. A problem for men being that a lot of women look mighty fine in their workout attire.
But in AcGold's case, I would venture to say that the women are more turned on by the fact that their boyfriend is actually doing something with them, and that their boyfriend is striving to be healthy as well. Generally women are more focused on fitness than men, especially when in a relationship, and so to have a man actually enjoy working out with them would probably be something they're not used to.
It also probably makes them feel better about themselves. Feel "gross" or "fat" can be reasons they don't want to have relations (as noted above) but hitting the gym might make them feel better about being naked in front of you.
I think this is because they're sick of dudes at the gym who think that their tank top and lulu tights are an open invitation to be hit on, when they're really just there to get a workout.
I've worked out at the same place for over a decade and know a lot of the regulars and that simply doesn't happen all that much. I realize that guys like to take peeks but that's the nature of being in a gym where everyone is in tight clothes and working on their physiques. The girls peek too.
I've worked out at the same place for over a decade and know a lot of the regulars and that simply doesn't happen all that much. I realize that guys like to take peeks but that's the nature of being in a gym where everyone is in tight clothes and working on their physiques. The girls peek too.
Agreed, I actually don't see that many men approach women in the gym. It depends on your attitude towards the gym too I would imagine. Like if you're someone who goes to the gym as a hobby and enjoys it and thus will enjoy like-minded people, then yeah I can see having some success there. I actually have a buddy like this who is a workout nut and he meets most women at the gym, who are also workout nuts.
But if they're just there for their daily 30-45 min, probably not so lucky as they don't see it as a social thing. Both men and women. If I was working out and some girl started talking to me for whatever reason, it's unlikely that I would end up asking for her number or a date just because of the gym stigma.
Yes. In fear of turning this into a super intense thread about rape and sexual abuse and how terrible of a person I am for making a joke, I won't say it was like rape... but it was.
This popped up on the news last night while I happened to be in the room
One of the ladies they interviewed said something along the lines of "this is absolutely shameful, MAYBE if the husband had tried to TALK to the wife she may be more open to the idea of sex".
While I don't agree with him putting the list on the internet, I couldn't believe that this was the first thing the woman had to say. I guess she just assumes all men are cavemen and we communicate only by grunting.
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This popped up on the news last night while I happened to be in the room
One of the ladies they interviewed said something along the lines of "this is absolutely shameful, MAYBE if the husband had tried to TALK to the wife she may be more open to the idea of sex".
While I don't agree with him putting the list on the internet, I couldn't believe that this was the first thing the woman had to say. I guess she just assumes all men are cavemen and we communicate only by grunting.
She's the one who put it on the internet ... not him. Also, I'm guessing he didn't start that list the very first time she didn't want to have sex. Who knows how long it had been going on.
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