That's the kind of thing that happens when there's no communication, rather than being able to discuss it when it's at a low or medium level, it sits until it's at DEFCON 2 at which point it's not communication anymore, it's confrontation or blaming or resentment etc.
Lots of marriages go through varying degrees of this.
They would probably benefit from some marriage counselling/therapy.
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A relationship journal can actually be pretty helpful, because often what we remember days/weeks/months after is different than what really happened or how we really felt, but I'm not sure this attempt really qualifies.
__________________ Uncertainty is an uncomfortable position.
But certainty is an absurd one.
That's what they get to look forward to for the rest of their lives? (or the next 6 months while they start divorce proceedings) ... Marriage seems awesome
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Johnny eats garbage and isn’t 100% committed.
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Wait until they can walk and won't get out of your bed. You'll be like "We can just wait until the kids fall asleep then go to the living room." She'll roll over and pretend to fall asleep before the kids.
He can't have actually believed this is anything more than total nuclear strike on his own marriage. I'd say at that point it's a coin flip to decide whether to seek counselling or a divorce lawyer.
While 3 times in 6 weeks clearly isn't what he's after, if certain studies are to be believed he's likely more normal than he thinks he is. http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html
According to the above, of married couples aged 30-39, 47% are having sex "a few times per month to weekly".
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