Teacher Charged with Sex Assault

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by polak

I edited my post and elaborated.

Like I said, I'm sure every 15-18 year old guy would be pretty stoked to bang a hot teacher.

Still no better. It's about power and mental age.

[_Q_]

I'm with Polak on this. It would have been pretty awesome to bang my English teacher when I was 14. I doubt this kid will have any issues growing up that are any different than say losing your virginity at that age.

[polak]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Depends on if its a actual seduction or a full on pressure to have sex with me or bad things will happen.

But even a young guy who gets seduced by a hot teacher, might not feel so great about it later.

Maybe she's into ram$$$$ things into $$$$$$

Well yeah, if it's not consensual (black mail, threats etc) then that is completely different.

I'm just talking about situations with actual consent and students that are in High School.

I mean, if I was in High School and I got to nail one of those teachers in that post on the 1st page, I'd probably have a party. There would be cake and everything.

[Senator Clay Davis]

Yeah there aren't too many 14 year old boys who have to be asked twice if they'd like to bang the hot teacher. If the "scars" this young man has to face is remembering the times he got to plow a woman (and not a girl) at 14 years old, I think we'd all want those scars.

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by _Q_

I'm with Polak on this. It would have been pretty awesome to bang my English teacher when I was 14. I doubt this kid will have any issues growing up that are any different than say losing your virginity at that age.

So are you fine with a 40yr male teacher plowing a 14 yr girl?

[polak]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

So are you fine with a 40yr male teacher plowing a 14 yr girl?

To be honest, I think this is a situation where a double standard is okay. Guys and Girls react to sex a lot differently. I have a hard time believing that they would both feel the same effects in the long run.

Also, I know a few high school girls that were in love with some of their teachers. I'm sure they wouldn't complain.

(oh man I can't wait to see the reaction to this post )

[blankall]

Lisa Marinelli
Age at time of offense: 40
Location: Tampa, FL
Occupation: High School Substitute Teacher
Lover: 17 year-old male student
Crime: While searching for potential suitors for her 15 year-old daughter, Ms. Marinelli had over 10 sexual encounters with a minor.
Sentence: She is charged with unlawful sex with a minor. She is currently free on $20,000 bail.




WTF? Stuff like this actually happens? Not to make light of the issue that is...

[_Q_]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

So are you fine with a 40yr male teacher plowing a 14 yr girl?

No I am not, because sex is always consensual for a male. Females can be forced to have sex. The man is doing the "plowing" as you like to say.

[polak]

Originally Posted by blankall

WTF? Stuff like this actually happens? Not to make light of the issue that is...

I went to the wrong school

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by _Q_

No I am not, because sex is always consensual for a male. Females can be forced to have sex. The man is doing the "plowing" as you like to say.

Honest question, are there any instances of male rape, not involving another male?

The majority of the male teacher with female student is consensual, correct me if I am wrong, but I do not recall too many instances of physically forced sex by a male teacher.

[puckluck2]

Originally Posted by _Q_

No I am not, because sex is always consensual for a male. Females can be forced to have sex. The man is doing the "plowing" as you like to say.

Sex isn't always consensual for a male. That's being ignorant of the thousands if not millions of males who have been sexually assaulted.

[blankall]

Originally Posted by polak

To be honest, I think this is a situation where a double standard is okay. Guys and Girls react to sex a lot differently. I have a hard time believing that they would both feel the same effects in the long run.

Also, I know a few high school girls that were in love with some of their teachers. I'm sure they wouldn't complain.

(oh man I can't wait to see the reaction to this post )

Posters are going to rip on your for this, but you do make a solid point. I think the courts definitely take this into account when sentencing too. Although teachers who have sex with willing students still deserve to be punished, the pusnishment shouldn't be nearly as harsh in comparison to a situation when the student is coerced or blackmailed into the relationship.

A lot of the cases in question involve attractive women in their mid-20s and male students aged 16-18. It's not a legal double standard we are talking about here, the circumstances of the sexual relationship are simply different.

[DuffMan]

Originally Posted by fotze

???

I didn't know trumpet instructor was a profession.

Had I, I would've tried to find one to date.

[_Q_]

Originally Posted by Iginla

Sex isn't always consensual for a male. That's being ignorant of the thousands if not millions of males who have been sexually assaulted.

OK let me clarify. Heterosexual sex is always consensual for a male. If you don't want to have sex, then you just don't get it up. That's just how the anatomy works.

[blankall]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

Honest question, are there any instances of male rape, not involving another male?

The majority of the male teacher with female student is consensual, correct me if I am wrong, but I do not recall too many instances of physically forced sex by a male teacher.

Yes, it is totally possible, however, you are right the majority of the cases in question were consensual.

An erection can be non-voluntary. Additionally, a woman can force herself on a man in other ways (use your imagination, it can involve "toys").

[blankall]

Originally Posted by _Q_

OK let me clarify. Heterosexual sex is always consensual for a male. If you don't want to have sex, then you just don't get it up. That's just how the anatomy works.

No it's not.

See my post above. Not only can it be biologically involuntary, but if a male can be psychologically forced into the situation. For example, do this or you're fired.

[To Be Quite Honest]

Originally Posted by _Q_

OK let me clarify. Heterosexual sex is always consensual for a male. If you don't want to have sex, then you just don't get it up. That's just how the anatomy works.

Apparently somebody hasn't heard of the fear boner.

So if she's 14, wet and ready then it's all okay right?

The correct answer is; it's disgusting and wrong for both adult sexes.

Double standards like the two big ones mentioned in this thread are horribly wrong and it should be fixed.

[polak]

Originally Posted by To Be Quite Honest

Apparently somebody hasn't heard of the fear boner.

So if she's 14, wet and ready then it's all okay right?

Double standards like the two big ones are mentioned in this thread are wrong and it should be fixed.

No because like I said, most of the time, a female teacher and male student getting it on is an awesome victimless fun party. Guys are wired differently when it comes to sex.

There needs to be a seperation in these kind of consensual relationships.

[YYC in LAX]

Originally Posted by _Q_

If you don't want to have sex, then you just don't get it up. That's just how the anatomy works.

Ever heard of an NRB? Precisely the sole reason I stopped wearing sweat pants in junior high.

[_Q_]

Originally Posted by blankall

No it's not.

See my post above. Not only can it be biologically involuntary, but if a male can be psychologically forced into the situation. For example, do this or you're fired.

Sure, I'll concede that. But, I doubt most of these adult female on under-age male cases are actually physically forced sex. Say for example your boss was a female and she said "have sex with me or you're fired". Would that be considered rape? Maybe against company policy and definitely grounds for her termination. But is it illegal? I doubt it.

In most cases, these teachers are as Polak says, attractive mid 20s girls that are bored with their lives at home. Most of the times the boy is the 16 or 17 year old is the captain of the senior Football team alpha male of the school and probably has sex with all the girls in high school. I fail to look at that as rape, I'm sorry.