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Old 05-17-2012, 02:58 PM   #1
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I know it is a pretty personal question but I am curious for those that will answer how often you and your partner are having sex, and if you are single, married, have kids (age), other factors, etc... Has the way you have sex changed? Are you still creative and flirty or do you always make love? My partner and I are having issues so I need some input.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:59 PM   #2
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I know it is a pretty personal question but I am curious for those that will answer how often you and your partner are having sex, and if you are single, married, have kids (age), other factors, etc... Has the way you have sex changed? Are you still creative and flirty or do you always make love? My partner and I are having issues so I need some input.
I can put it in if you are having issues.
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Old 05-17-2012, 03:03 PM   #3
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Old 05-17-2012, 03:05 PM   #4
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XXX per week = 1/log2(years together)

Edit: Forgot to invert it... I wish it was a straight up log...

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Really? 20% of people in my age group, with partners, are not having sex in calendar year. Who the hell stays in a relationship like that if they're not religious (medical issues notwithstanding)?
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Old 05-17-2012, 03:33 PM   #7
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According to my age group I need to get married, has the best odds!
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Old 05-17-2012, 03:34 PM   #8
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Whenever I want.
I don't think we are counting it if there isn't another person there.
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Really? 20% of people in my age group, with partners, are not having sex in calendar year. Who the hell stays in a relationship like that if they're not religious (medical issues notwithstanding)?
My time as a divorce lawyer revealed to me that many of the married people we saw have been in separate bed-rooms for years. There are many reasons a couple will stay together besides sex.

Biologically, it is shown that our brains change over the course of a relationship, from lust to attachment.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biological_basis_of_love

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Old 05-17-2012, 03:38 PM   #10
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Old 05-17-2012, 03:47 PM   #11
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To actually answer your question, I'd say roughly 2-3 times per week. Currently engaged, been together for almost 6 years.

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My time as a divorce lawyer revealed to me that many of the married people we saw have been in separate bed-rooms for years. There are many reasons a couple will stay together besides sex.

Biologically, it is shown that our brains change over the course of a relationship, from lust to attachment.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biological_basis_of_love
I feel like that's something more true for women than men. I know a lot of girls talk about the "honeymoon stage" of a relationship where they'll have sex almost every night, but then it decreases over time as they get more secure in the relationship. From a man's perspective I don't understand this. I know I want sex just as much at the start of the relationship as 6 months to a year in.

I also kind of have to wonder, if this is the case, and you're a man who likes having a lot of sex, what the motivation would be to stay in a longterm relationship?
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I know I want sex just as much at the start of the relationship as 6 months to a year in.
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Old 05-17-2012, 04:26 PM   #14
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Married and getting it once a week.
Not as much as I'd hope but accordingly to Troutman's guide, im in the majority in my age group.

OP, where are you in the spectrum? Maybe you're not the only one
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Old 05-17-2012, 04:29 PM   #15
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Depends if I get my paycheck that week or not.

Jokes aside, not enough. We don't live together and are not in marriage territory, and my hours are all over the damn place, so I don't reaaly have time to spend with anyone, let alone CP. Could range from 3/week to 1/3 weeks.
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Old 05-17-2012, 04:35 PM   #16
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This may not be helpful, but I knew this guy who was in a relationship for four years. Last 2 years of it, it went way down hill, and I think he was sexless for about a year and a half. Then his girlfriend came out of the closet.
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Old 05-17-2012, 04:36 PM   #17
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Two pokes and 2 b's a week and you got a good women.
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Old 05-17-2012, 05:13 PM   #20
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Married for 8 years with two kids ages 6 and 4. Both my wife and I have busy lives but make time for "fun" at least twice a week. It has not always been as consistent but looking back I understand that having kids and the torture a ladies body goes thru can make it pretty tough.

Sure hoping this post does not jinx things. And a "touch wood" comment is likely out of line
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