Places to travel after a breakup

[getbak]

Originally Posted by Sidney Crosby's Hat

Winnipeg.

No one from Phoenix wants to go to Winnipeg. Why won't you just accept that?


Seriously, though, this is the answer: http://www.hedonismresorts.com/

[Montana Moe]

New Orleans is always the answer. People lose their minds there, it's like Vegas with culture, tradition, music, and quality local grub.

[Dion]

Take a trip to Tennessee and stay at Elvis Presley's Heartbreak Hotel.

http://www.tnvacation.com/vendors/el...rtbreak_hotel/

[SeeBass]

Ibiza, Spain

[WhiteTiger]

This is all conjecture anyhow. She MAY come back and break up with you. Her parents MAY talk her into it. Why don't you wait and see what comes of it first before assuming the end of the relationship. She may be stronger than you think, and IF her parents tell her that, she may tell them to stuff it. There just seems like a lot of "what if's" and "maybe's" in what you are saying. I'd say you are just borrowing trouble.

[nickerjones]

Originally Posted by Bouw N Arrow

3 months is hard to believe. I hear you all. But there are broads and there are ones who really touch you.

I mean who the hell says broads anymore? Are you 60 ?

Nonetheless ... I do understand what you mean, I told one my girlfriends I loved her after like a week of dating...... in 7th grade! jk but really , breaking up with anyone is tough. I would think especially if it was a forced breakup that neither one of you want to partake in. However, now there will be a sense of danger to hooking up with her. It could work out better in the long run. People always want what they cant or arent supposed to have.

[Mean Mr. Mustard]

To echo everyone elses sentiments, it has been three months, not that long a time, there are no financial ties, no kids or anything of the sort. Take a couple days, go get right drunk with a couple friends and put yourself back on the market.

If you go on a vacation you aren't going to enjoy it until you get your head back in the game, so what's the point of spending the money and taking the time, just to be unhappy somewhere else?

Some kind of spiritual journey? See the birthplace of Ghandi, go pray with some monks in Nepal or see the wailing wall.

Not being very spiritual myself, my ideas probablly suck.... but you get the idea.

[MJM]

Go to Cancun and knock a different 19-20 year old out every night.

Oh the days before I was married......

[nickerjones]

You cant go to Cancun anymore, you will get shot by a drug cartel. If you are a white guy , go to Japan , I hear the women there really like white dudes.

[MJM]

Originally Posted by nickerjones

You cant go to Cancun anymore, you will get shot by a drug cartel. If you are a white guy , go to Japan , I hear the women there really like white dudes.

All the drug problems (with tourists anyways) are generally on the West Coast/Northern border towns. The only thing you need to worry about in Cancun is bringing something back with you you didn't expect to.

[mykalberta]

Normally I would say Vegas, but for you I would suggest Thailand.

[Winsor_Pilates]

After only 3 months; a smutty rebound from the Crack Alley should do the trick

[tjinaz]

I would recommend the 32nd street location. Happy hour prices are reasonable and you will have a decent buzz by the time the A players get on stage. Just be safe and take a cab.....

http://christiescabaret.com/

[troutman]

La Grange

[JustAnotherGuy]

Play it cool and who knows. Maybe she will miss you while she is away. Maybe she will get a good break and feel refreshed and decide that she definitely want to be with you. Give it a couple weeks after she is back and see how things are going.

Definitely don't get all clingy and stuff because you don't feel that confident in the relationship.

Are there indicators that she is going to break it off or are you just being paranoid?

[Champion]

If she really loves you as much as you love her and the relationship means something, she won't break up with you. It's pretty simple imo.

Hope it stays good between you two though.

[DuffMan]

If she doesn't go down as much as her grades, I wouldn't even worry about it.

[Jordan!]

Originally Posted by Shin Pad

If her grades are going down, maybe you should give her some space to study. You two should just try and work out a schedule, to give her enough time to get her grades back up to where they should be. It would be a lot easier than breaking up.

I've done that since we started seeing each other to the point where we wouldn't see each other during school days and just see each other friday night then all day Saturday's. I've given her all the time in the world. I think for her family they see my as just another guy.. they don't really realize the chemistry we have and how I support and care about her school.

Basically.. I'm entirely powerless in the situation and it really sucks

I've been on guard since the relationship started.. I'm not clingy at all, and you're right. I think i'll just have faith that she will be strong while keeping my guard up and hope for the best.

Thanks to all

Originally Posted by JustAnotherGuy

Are there indicators that she is going to break it off or are you just being paranoid?

She brought it up Saturday, saying that her family is very persuasive and that when she goes to California for the holidays that she doesn't know if she can be strong enough to go against them. I'll just be hopeful that she realizes that she'll be giving up something pretty special for no reason.. We're both 27, she's a big girl and that maybe it's time to think of herself and not just what mom and dad tell her.

We'll see..

[Kybosh]

Have you considered converting to Asian?