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Flame On · 11-23-2005, 04:31 PM

Pretty sweet, although I will say that his reaction sure will show that she hurt him, I wonder if he'd hurt her more if he reacted less. Hard to say, haven't been through that.

Rutuu · 11-23-2005, 04:32 PM

Well I was going for something more along the lines of...some people just put themselves in bad situations, or are intolerable in some way...you can't just chalk up someone getting cheated on multiple times as "bad luck".

fredr123 · 11-23-2005, 04:33 PM

On the topic of whether or not this is true, I tried to search the archives at Snopes.com. I know linking to threads on other forums is kind of frowned upon, but thought this was interersting: http://msgboard.snopes.com/cgi-bin/u...9;t=001996;p=0

The thread was started on November 17, 2005 and mentions NYC as the background to the story...

Eddie Bronze · 11-23-2005, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Rutuu

I know people that always get cheated on too...

Anybody ever entertain the notion it might be you and not the other person?

Your name suits you quite well.

Eastern Girl · 11-23-2005, 04:36 PM

I don't chalk up being cheated on multiple times to just "bad luck." I chalk it up to bad decisions coupled with a persons inability to consider the feelings of the person they are with.

Mango · 11-23-2005, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Rutuu

Well I was going for something more along the lines of...some people just put themselves in bad situations, or are intolerable in some way...you can't just chalk up someone getting cheated on multiple times as "bad luck".

I'll keep that in mind too.

CaramonLS · 11-23-2005, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by return to the red

I have to disagree first hand

. While i'm not proud of it I have been disloyal to people I have dated. I never used excuses and never will for what I did. My next relationship after found me with a girl for 2 months before she left for KOREA for a year. Of course the big bet amongst my friends was how long I could stay faithful.

I am now proud to say that we have been together for over two years and are engaged to get married in september and never once did I come close to straying...so that "once a cheater always a cheater" is pure bullsh*t

Well I'm glad that you've been able to stray from the norm, but I would have to say that you are greatly in the minority as opposed to the majority.

kermitology · 11-23-2005, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Eddie Bronze

Your name suits you quite well.

Note the difference between Ruutu and Rutuu..

return to the red · 11-23-2005, 04:49 PM

This girl obviously had it in her mind that the relationship was over before she even cheated. She was just chicken **** to break it off so she found the easiest way to end it quickly knowing that her boryfriend would break up with her for cheating. Honestly who says at the end oh by the way can you keep an eye out for my sunglasses?

Eastern Girl · 11-23-2005, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by return to the red

This girl obviously had it in her mind that the relationship was over before she even cheated. She was just chicken **** to break it off so she found the easiest way to end it quickly knowing that her boryfriend would break up with her for cheating. Honestly who says at the end oh by the way can you keep an eye out for my sunglasses?

I would wager that this chick was just selfish and figured she could get away with it. Have her cake and eat it too, literally and figuratively.

Bobblehead · 11-23-2005, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Eastern Girl

I would wager that this chick was just selfish and figured she could get away with it. Have her cake and eat it too, literally and figuratively.

Hey baby, is that frosting on your lip?

Rutuu · 11-23-2005, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by kermitology

Note the difference between Ruutu and Rutuu..

Haha...I know...Everybody loves to bust that burn out though.

Reaper · 11-23-2005, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Mango

And it's probably teaching her not to ever apologize through email ever again

You don't seriously believe that her email is an apology, do you? She barely tucks "I am sorry" in at the beginning and end of the email. Her email is really about how she feels unpleasant, guilty, how she would like him to absolve her of these feelings and that she wants to pretend she didn't cheat on him.

Mango · 11-23-2005, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Reaper

You don't seriously believe that her email is an apology, do you? She barely tucks "I am sorry" in at the beginning and end of the email. Her email is really about how she feels unpleasant, guilty, how she would like him to absolve her of these feelings and that she wants to pretend she didn't cheat on him.

Good point - not sure what to say about the girl....

Edit: actually, yes, I know what I could say...but none of it is nice.

Reaper · 11-23-2005, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Eddie Bronze

God it's good to be single! All this stress you people put yourself through, and for what?

Real, human companionship.

4X4 · 11-23-2005, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by MrMastodonFarm

I don't know how anyone can go "Yeah I cheated on you, but it's your fault"

I do. It's called "not getting laid". If my woman constantly "has a headache", I'll go find someone that is willing to take an aspirin.

As for the other question about whether the two guys can laugh it off, they certainly can if they don't know eachother. If my old lady is out screwing some guy behind my back, I'd better look at what I did to make her need to go elsewhere.

And if it's just plain sluttyness (ie, giving a blowjob in a public washroom), then I'm an idiot for dating the skank & that guy did me a favour by waking me up.

Hell, I'd probably pay for the shot.

Dirty Mr. Clean · 11-23-2005, 05:34 PM

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAHA'1111!!!!!!!!

That was so funny. People are dumb! :P

Hakan · 11-23-2005, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 4X4

I do. It's called "not getting laid". If my woman constantly "has a headache", I'll go find someone that is willing to take an aspirin.

As for the other question about whether the two guys can laugh it off, they certainly can if they don't know eachother. If my old lady is out screwing some guy behind my back, I'd better look at what I did to make her need to go elsewhere.

And if it's just plain sluttyness (ie, giving a blowjob in a public washroom), then I'm an idiot for dating the skank & that guy did me a favour by waking me up.

Hell, I'd probably pay for the shot.

Talk about hitting the nail on the head. Great post.

To expand. Monogamy just isn't something that's assumed and sacred in a relationship. Monogamy is something that you want to do because the person you are dating is so special that you wouldn't want anyone else. Sure you may be tempted but the rational brain would say, wait a moment, I've getting everythign I want and then some from my partner of whom I love.

If infact the relationship sucks and you aren't getting what you want after telling the person how you are unfulfilled then you may go out on the free agent market. Did anyone read Dan Savages last column about the guy who can't have sex with his wife because her shizophrenia medication practically kills her libido? He had kids with her, loved her but really needed to get his rocks off. Dan's advice? Cheat on her. He said either you cheat on her and stay with her with you sexual wants fulfilled or you'll divorce her. Which one is better?

A lot of righteousness circling around in this thread. Infidelity happens so often that I'm surprised it took 30 posts for someone to finally admit to it.

greatbigC · 11-23-2005, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Reaper

You don't seriously believe that her email is an apology, do you? She barely tucks "I am sorry" in at the beginning and end of the email. Her email is really about how she feels unpleasant, guilty, how she would like him to absolve her of these feelings and that she wants to pretend she didn't cheat on him.

Bull****, she wants her sunglasses back.

MrMastodonFarm · 11-23-2005, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by 4X4

I do. It's called "not getting laid". If my woman constantly "has a headache", I'll go find someone that is willing to take an aspirin.
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Maybe if you didn't suck at it she'd want it more?