Nice Guys...She's using you!!!

[Flames_Gimp]

not true..i proved it wrong myself

[Dion]

[Muta]

Originally Posted by flip

It is weird that so many guys on here think girls are so needy. I think I know just as many guys who are insecure about their relationships and are clingy, as I know girls who are like that.

Not all girls are needy... I know lots who aren't.

[4X4]

Originally Posted by Muta

Not all girls are needy... I know lots who aren't.

Agreed. And I know lots of guys who are. And I know lots of guys with twice my game and lots of guys with half. It really comes down to trial and error. If you never try, you'll never succeed or fail. And then you won't post in threads giving advice.

Trust me fotze, if anyone ever posted a thread about how to fail with women, I'd have plenty of advice (based on personal experience) for that thread. I bet most of the guys that post success advice have twice as much failure advice. I know I do.

[flip]

Originally Posted by Muta

Not all girls are needy... I know lots who aren't.

I think that is what my post said exactly.

[mikey_the_redneck]

Originally Posted by fotze

But the amazing thing about this place is that there is never any of "those people". All the guys here have their sh*t together and amazingly so do all the girls, Look at any advice thread, every post is a person telling how perfect they themselves approach life and they are never wrong.

Yeah........people and their ego's.......

I haven't always understood this whole relationship dynamic, especially in high school and college. I educated myself and now have a much better understanding....

[Phanuthier]

Originally Posted by fotze

But the amazing thing about this place is that there is never any of "those people". All the guys here have their sh*t together and amazingly so do all the girls, Look at any advice thread, every post is a person telling how perfect they themselves approach life and they are never wrong.

If its not already obvious, I don't have my together. The girl always makes the first move. I've been asked out more times then I've asked out a girl, and for the ones that I was actually interested and went out on a date with them, they probably knew if they didn't make a move that I wouldn't make a move, so they decided to get the ball rolling.