Is there such a thing as a lover that got away?

[metal_geek]

Fatties need lovin' too..
________
PORTABLE VAPORIZOR REVIEWS

[J pold]

Originally Posted by HelloHockeyFans

Sorry - your reaction and judgement of his wife who you don't even know is ridiculous.

"Better than THAT"? Give me a break. Guess what, she's with him, you're not... keep thinking you're "better than that", but reality suggests otherwise.

This probably comes across harsh, but quite honest, your reaction and statement that his wife is "short, fat and ugly" is a lot harsher.

No sympathy from me... grow up.

BOOM! Goes the dynamite

[Dion]

Originally Posted by HelloHockeyFans

Sorry - your reaction and judgement of his wife who you don't even know is ridiculous.

"Better than THAT"? Give me a break. Guess what, she's with him, you're not... keep thinking you're "better than that", but reality suggests otherwise.

This probably comes across harsh, but quite honest, your reaction and statement that his wife is "short, fat and ugly" is a lot harsher.

No sympathy from me... grow up.

Well stated HHF!

[jayswin]

Originally Posted by HelloHockeyFans

Sorry - your reaction and judgement of his wife who you don't even know is ridiculous.

"Better than THAT"? Give me a break. Guess what, she's with him, you're not... keep thinking you're "better than that", but reality suggests otherwise.

This probably comes across harsh, but quite honest, your reaction and statement that his wife is "short, fat and ugly" is a lot harsher.

No sympathy from me... grow up.

A little harsh, but never the less 'quoted for truth'. That just sounded like a very shallow decription of the girl he is with now, you don't even know her.

[jayswin]

Originally Posted by Dion

One persons ugliness is another persons beauty. Guess i don't get this ugliness label that people place on certain members of the oposite sex

There's decent down to earth people, and then there's shallow a**holes.

[Domoic]

Originally Posted by GirlySports

I know I'm better than THAT.

Why dont you post a pic of yourself and conduct a poll?

CP users can judge whether you are "hot or not" instead of taking your word for it.

"Let's get ready to rummmmmble!"

[Dion]

Originally Posted by flameswin

There's decent down to earth people, and then there's shallow a**holes.

Exactly!

[Hack&Lube]

Originally Posted by J pold

No

I don’t believe that two people are ever destined to be together or any of that ‘one true love’ stuff. Nobody ‘gets away’ sometimes you are interested in someone and they just don’t feel the same way. Sometimes someone is going to be very interested in you but you won’t feel the same. Either way it doesn’t mean you are missing out on ‘the one’ because there is no such thing.

There is no destiny or "the one", etc. but there certainly are missed opportunities, close calls, and deep regrets...it still sucks though. But if you build yourself up too much in your head or play the "oh come on, I'm better than that, what the hell?" game, you are only bound for disappointment and delusion. I know I have.

[J pold]

Originally Posted by Hack&Lube

There is no destiny or "the one", etc. but there certainly are missed opportunities, close calls, and deep regrets...it still sucks though. But if you build yourself up too much in your head or play the "oh come on, I'm better than that, what the hell?" game, you are only bound for disappointment and delusion. I know I have.

I don’t know I have just always tried too not worry about the past, because there is nothing you can do too change it. There are very few things I have done in my life that I regret. It’s all a learning process. Instead of thinking “what the hell I know I’m better than that” Girly would be better off thinking “why did he choose her over me?” Not in a self pity type of way but really think about it. You’ll probably discover something about yourself and be better off.

[Wookie]

Yeah we need a picture to help you with this dilemma! Then we can tell you if you're overreacting or not.

[mykalberta]

You arent wrong - it could have been handled better but you arent wrong. Perhaps he was testing the water talking to you as an out to ditch his wife and fly you to Paris

[J pold]

Originally Posted by Dion

One persons ugliness is another persons beauty. Guess i don't get this ugliness label that people place on certain members of the oposite sex

Originally Posted by flameswin

There's decent down to earth people, and then there's shallow a**holes.

I highly doubt that they two of you have never said that someone is ugly or fat. Or even thought it for that matter, I’ll admit we live in a very superficial society. But no matter which way you slice it, looks matter.

[jayswin]

Originally Posted by J pold

I highly doubt that they two of you have never said that someone is ugly or fat. Or even thought it for that matter, I’ll admit we live in a very superficial society. But no matter which way you slice it, looks matter.

I know, but it's the internet, so I don't have to back up what I'm saying.

[Bring_Back_Shantz]

Originally Posted by J pold

I highly doubt that they two of you have never said that someone is ugly or fat. Or even thought it for that matter, I’ll admit we live in a very superficial society. But no matter which way you slice it, looks matter.

Yeah, i was gonna ask these guys if they'd take a 500 lp toothless bald lady out on a date if they were assured that she had a great personality, and for that matter if it turned out to be true if they'd taker her home for the evening.

[RougeUnderoos]

Right now you probably want to marry the ugliest man you can find, just to get revenge, but that won't solve anything, so whatever you do, don't do that!

[Bring_Back_Shantz]

Originally Posted by RougeUnderoos

Right now you probably want to marry the ugliest man you can find, just to get revenge, but that won't solve anything, so whatever you do, don't do that!

Way to torpedo yourself man. I think this might have been your shot!

[HelloHockeyFans]

Originally Posted by J pold

I highly doubt that they two of you have never said that someone is ugly or fat. Or even thought it for that matter, I’ll admit we live in a very superficial society. But no matter which way you slice it, looks matter.

But to immediately cast yourself as better than some one else because you're taller and slimmer? Garbage.

We live in a society where *some* people are controlled by shallow, superficial opinions as evidenced, but there are those (as evidenced as well) who don't let these ridiculous things make judgements for them.

[GirlySports]

Originally Posted by mykalberta

You arent wrong - it could have been handled better but you arent wrong. Perhaps he was testing the water talking to you as an out to ditch his wife and fly you to Paris

Heh his wife was there to get her hair done to go to a wedding :P

I know what I'm thinking and how I'm reacting is childish and wrong.
But it's how I feel at the moment. I wish I didn't see him again. Then he wouldn't exist anymore.. just a crush.

[red sky]

Originally Posted by GirlySports

Heh his wife was there to get her hair done to go to a wedding :P

I know what I'm thinking and how I'm reacting is childish and wrong.
But it's how I feel at the moment. I wish I didn't see him again. Then he wouldn't exist anymore.. just a crush.

I didn't know you posted on here... this whole time you were right in front of my face and I didn't know it was you.... you like me????

Okay I am being a dick... only kidding

[MaDMaN_26]

meh, I wouldn't let it rent space in your head.

I agree its not very fair to judge people by their looks, often you'll miss some of the funnest and brightest ones out there if you do... not always but you never know. That said not very many of us don't make those judgments internally when we meet people whether we want to or not, everyone harshing on you for simply writing down the same judgment they probably would have made is not very fair either and is simply throwing another judgment of a different kind right back at you... hypocrites. All people make judgements, very few have the ability to compartimentalize it and turely behave as if they didn't... the fact that you reacted and then wrote it down for us to read, doesn't make you a bad person just honest.

There could be so many reasons he is with this girl... maybe he does not care about physical beauty or just loves big girls or he knocked her up and they have a kid and he is doing the honorable thing for now... or maybe he's a scum bag with a shiny outside, and purposely picked a girl with low self esteem and self worth so he could be an abusive azzhole and cheat on her at will...

move on...