If you really want sex - FORGET ABOUT SEX, for a while anyway. The worst advice someone can give you (like all the previous comments suggest) is to try to entice her in to wild sexual escapades or get her drunk! You need to remember why you guys got together in the first place, bring back that passion and spark in the emotional relationship and then the physical one will come (no pun intended!). If she is feeling like you have an ulterior motive in planning a romantic night or a doing something nice for her then she will just be suspicious and think that you are just trying to get some - you need to be genuine in trying to ignite the spark and have no expectations of anything in return. After a while she will begin to feel the passion that was there when you were first together and the sex will come naturally. This is not a quick fix by any means, but if you are willing to work at it and be a little patient you will end up with a better relationship and great sex over time.
To answer your question, we have sex 3-5 times a week, have been married for 2 years and have a 10 month old baby. My wife, a psychologist, wrote the advice. She should create her own account.
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