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Originally Posted by Maserati
honestly the person who is doing the cutting should think about those who are close to him/her cause it is really upsetting to someone who cares.I know this from personal experience.Cause I feel helpless as I try to help that person and yet she keeps on doing it over and over make you feel helpless and wonder what can be done.
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I'm assuming this is a case where its done for attention, there is something you can do about it. I'd try getting her to sign a contract that she won't cut herself from 3 days, defining the time to be from when it starts to exactly 72 hours later. Make sure you have the details down pat, not just "3 days" but state "72 hours". Have the contract personally written up (not typed out) and signed as a personal promise. Work in cycles to try and get her to resign the contract, resigning contracts on a weekly basis (don't do something stupid like make it a 5 year contract) with the terms to last only a few days. Same procedure for suicidals as well.
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Last edited by Phanuthier; 07-22-2007 at 01:42 AM.
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