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Old 04-20-2019, 10:15 AM   #60
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Stuff like this.

I’ve never found finding friends difficult. I’m an extrovert. I reached out to a guy in my community through Twitter and invited him to a junior hockey game and he invited me over for a beer. I interacted with a guy on Facebook and I invited him for coffee. Friendships made in both cases.

My wife and I have friends from churches we’ve attended and I have several from my community volunteerism. I sit on a community board. Oh you like junior hockey? So do I; let’s go together. We’ve hosted neighbourhood parties.

Be imaginative.
it's easier for extroverts. My brother can start up a conversation with anyone. Me, I'm analytical. If people start up a conversation with me out of the blue in public, I think their crazy. I need time to analyze and observe. I'm aware of it, but it's still hard to change that behavior. If someone asked me for coffee or a beer online that I didn't know? I'd think that was really weird and shy away from it. Leads to a lonely existence though.
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