[Dan02]

Originally Posted by sworkhard

Haha, I don't mean calling someone it, them, they.
Some transgender people use (newly invented?) pronouns like zir, zem, ze, etc

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender...8s.29he.2C_etc.

Stick to the gender they prefer to identify with and you'll be fine dude. You're way overthinking things.