I know you going to hate me saying this, but if he's not willing to admit that he's using, or has a problem with it, there's next to nothing you can do. If you confront him with it, unlike what you see in the movies, he's not going to break down and cry and admit the errors of his ways.
A friend of mine who got hooked on drugs in the late 80's and never got help told me that he really resented people confronting him with a problem that he didn't think he had.
He didn't seek help until he saw himself hitting the bottom.
Don't let yourself get pulled into that well, unless your sure that he dosen't want to fall into it. step back and be more concerned with supporting his family members and make sure that he dosen't directly or indirectly harm them.
The first step always has to be taken by the addict, because if he dosen't have a reason to quit he's not going to
Just my 2 cents.
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