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Originally Posted by afc wimbledon
My ex, in the last few weeks pronounced, 'it will be better after we seperate we can be friends', my reply was 'if we could be friends we wouldn't need an effing divorce'.
The divorce was grim expensive and messy, as is almost every interaction I have with the woman, who, ironically, blames me for it. My daughter is doing great, off to uni and costing me a fortune!!
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Why is it ironic that she blames you? That's what divorced people do - blame each other. Sounds like you blame her, so...
Getting divorced with kids involved is terrible because you still have all the same issues with each other, you still have to deal with each other, but now you're "divorced" and your kids have to shuttle back and forth between the parents. And everyone inevitably gets into new relationships, starts blaming their new partner for stuff, and rinse and repeat the cycle.