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Originally Posted by FFR
So as soon as the baby leaves the mothers womb....she has no burdens for the rest of her life. You're speaking like once the birth is over, its only the man's responsibilty for the next 18 years. I can tell you that raising a child is a lot more difficult, time consuming and expensive than 18 years of child subsidizing. Grow up.
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either some people here are really too narrow minded to give what i'm saying a shot or i'm not expressing myself properly. being pregnant compared to rasing and caring for another human being. I know which I would consider a harder and more of a burden - raising it. who's saying that the mother has to raise it? idealy the mother and father share this responsibility. the mother might do it alone. the father might do it alone. or it could be put up for adoption and a different couple could do it. I certainly wasn't saying that the father's only responsibility either should be or will be a financial one. but at bare minimum, by law, it is.