On the subject of waiting to be in the elevator before asking, people often wait until there's a little more privacy before making such advances anyway. Being turned down sucks and being turned down where there's a lot of people around to witness your failure is even worse (don't compare this to being in a bar/club because that's a different animal altogether).
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Originally Posted by troutman
I understood that was her original point.
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I don't quite agree there. Even without saying much, she made it into a lot more than that and you can tell that her message wasn't as simple as what I suggested it should have been.
Talking about being sexualised and tying it in with the fact that she had spoken about the subject earlier in the evening. By her own admission, he even said "Don't take this the wrong way" to start out, which means he obviously was aware of the potential context that his remarks could have been perceived to be in and was sensitive to - if not simply feigning sensitivity, which we'll never know anyway - her feelings on how it might have been taken.