[Phanuthier]

Thanks for the reply Anus. (Ha ha ok not meant as an insult, I just always wanted to say that.)

Sorry to hear about you're situation. I've actually been there same situation, and I was able to salvage the situation. I've also had friends commit suicide as well, though I guess many people have - really confusing for those leftover which really sucks. Depression sucks, I had a brief spell of it a while back and its amazing how difficult it is when you get so low. Life's such a beautiful thing, everyone has their story, everyone has their accomplishments and everyone has their things they care about. Sucks when it all comes down to this. I won't go into the selfish thing (different thread, already talked about)... depression sucks, being the leftovers of suicide really sucks too.

I certainly understand depression, but I have now pretty much exhausted all options. I'll contacted his work (hasn't been to work in a month), his housemate/landlord (hasn't been there in a month), his brother (hasn't contacted him in over a month) and his parents, the last person to see him (2 weeks ago) is apparently getting annoyed with these phone calls and isn't sharing any info. His landlord/renter let me go through his room, and I looked for any sort of evidence for anything - nothing. I've left my phone number with each individual party and said to call me if anything comes up, or if I can help in any way. I've fired him a few emails, inviting him to just social get togethers, and other emails just asking whats up and if he wants to get together for a beer. He has now stopped coming online (he was online, but never responded - maybe auto-login for his phone?) this briefly after he came online on another account; but I'm usually out of the house for half the day; so I'm not sure if we're talking about rehab or if he's already gone off and committed suicide.

I have no idea where the guy is, I wonder where he is even staying since its not with the place he's renting, any family or any friends (if he's still alive). The only thing left is to file a missing persons report with the police, but I'd really rather his parents do it since they have more information and I feel like its something I shouldn't be getting too involved in. I'm here if I needed, and offered to do whatever I can anyone around P. I guess I'll just see what goes from there.

Thanks for all the advice from everyone though, all replies are appreciated and some really valuable stuff in here.