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Originally Posted by flamesfever
Perhaps it may be beneficial to soften your stance on marriage...and sit down and have a heart to heart talk with the father, laying all your cards on the table.
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Soften your stance? Noooooooo!
It sounds to me like rubecube has his mind made up about marriage. It's his choice and there is 100% nothing wrong with it.
We are all brought up in this culture with the belief that one must get married with kids, and to do anything different is shameful and unacceptable....... Bull! The institute of marriage is a giant fail and has disastrous consequences for both participants when it does.....for men especially......and that is basically a 50/50 chance of happening. You don't need a legal document to have a relationship with another person.
So when DOES rubecube get to visit the girlfriends family and share a bed with her? When they are 30, 40 years old? They could still be un-married at that time........
I say nip this behavior in the bud now rubecube!