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Old 03-19-2009, 03:45 PM   #60
mikey_the_redneck
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Originally Posted by CGYTransplant View Post
Ah, the good ol' "She was totally coming onto me" defence (Freeing Creeps and Rapists since, well, FOREVER!)...

Regardless of what "vibe" she was giving off, unless she explicitly says "Hey Cellphone guy, I would like to go out with you sometime, please text me", it's wrong for him to text her. Period. So, no, ONE text isn't fine, unless she asked him to text her. She didn't provide her phone number to make a personal connection, she provided it as part of a business transaction.
The problem with your post here is that you're not taking human nature into account.
It is the mans duty to approach/open the woman he is interested in. Women rarely, if ever initiate dates etc.
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