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Originally Posted by Flame Of Liberty
I haven't read the whole thread so maybe someone else already pointed this out - this is the problem. She sees that you have a social circle of buddies you hang out with. She doesn't. She feels alone, maybe secluded.
You can't simply fix that by saying "go dance with my sister" or whatever. It's not that easy. Maybe she doesn't like your sister, maybe she doesn't like dancing. For some people it's not easy to find a circle of friends they can enjoy their hobbies with. You have that. Your wife doesn't have that, and does not know how to get that. Unless she gets her own "jamming band" she will always see you having one as a problem. IMO that's your problem in a nutshell right there.
My 2 cents.
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TBH... I dont hang out with any of my buddies I used to when we first started dating years ago... these are just a couple like minded musicians who want to get out and jam a couple nights a week. They wouldnt be my first choice to go out for a night on the town or anything...
But you are probally right...
I have bought her 2 guitars of her own (right handed so that proves they are not for me haha) so maybe I will ask her to jam with me at home on my second night....