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Originally Posted by stang
I would love for her to do her own thing and go out... She doesnt. I would have no problem with her doing whatever she wants (within normal couple limits of course)
If she wanted to go swimming 2 nights a week.. good.
Soccer/dance with my sister? I would be thrilled.
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I haven't read the whole thread so maybe someone else already pointed this out - this is the problem. She sees that you have a social circle of buddies you hang out with. She doesn't. She feels alone, maybe secluded.
You can't simply fix that by saying "go dance with my sister" or whatever. It's not that easy. Maybe she doesn't like your sister, maybe she doesn't like dancing. For some people it's not easy to find a circle of friends they can enjoy their hobbies with. You have that. Your wife doesn't have that, and does not know how to get that. Unless she gets her own "jamming band" she will always see you having one as a problem. IMO that's your problem in a nutshell right there.
My 2 cents.