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Originally Posted by JohnnyB
I'm really glad to get some positive responses to my choice. I knew there would be some people who support that decision, but I also wonder how many really think otherwise. My best friend here is pretty much a womanizer who definitely would have done it. Another of my good friends in in the middle of a divorce and is in a state of amorality (not that I'm judging other choices) where I'm certain he would have done it as well. Furthermore, I'm pretty confident that pretty much any of my male Chinese friends would have done it without thinking to much about it, and that they'll think I'm kind of an idiot for not doing it. I believe in strong personal values, but I also recognize that values are social and I'm happy to have support from an online community where a real-life community would maybe not be so agreeable.
Cheers.
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Being one who has seen way too many crappy movies, let me outline what I think is in your near future.
You get home to your fiancée, and after closing the front door you turn around. Suddenly your girl runs up to you. She jumps into your arms and smothers you with kisses.
Of course, you're enjoying this and reciprocating, but you wonder what's up. Just then, a figure comes out from another room... it's the "other woman" who smiles and says, "Congratulations, Johnny. You passed the test."
Your fiancée is so happy that you are trustworthy that she wants to reward you. Both women drop their laundry and proceed to give you the only scenario that you told the other woman you'd be willing to accept if you were to sleep with her.
Win-win-win!
