One of the big questions that comes to mind is, Do you live with her right now?
If not, that would be a great way to find out how things would work if you decided to get married.
If you do, do you guys get along well?
Do you feel that you can be yourself and not have to tailor your life to fit her?
I had a 4 year relationship previously, and after finally deciding to live together on a trial basis, decided to end things because I spent more time frustrated/defending myself than I was happy.
That's never a good sign.
I haven't regretted it one bit...I took some time to be single then met another girl who I've been very happy with so far.
Marriage is scary, but you should never feel like you HAVE to take that step. If nothing else, buy yourself some more time to figure things out. People are getting married much later in life now, I'm sure you're not the only one facing this problem.
Hope you can figure things out and end up happy one way or another.
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