MelBridgeman and Flashpoint!
some outstanding advice and I will take note of it.
as I mentioned to someone else already. I think I need to take a step back and let the cards fall where they may. I have said what I needed to say to the coach and his assistants and I dont think there is any point in belabouring it anymore.
we will just have to deal with the cards that have been dealt.
If I dont like the way something is going, I best get up and go for a walk.

this is afterall about my son and not me. and I just want whats best for him, but he may have to find his own way a bit.