Bachelor Party

[Rhettzky]

If it really bugs you then wait til you see the stripper and then immediately tell the guys you need to talk to them outside. Mention that you used to date the chick and she gave you the clap. Needless to say you can then make your way to the bar.

[Yeah_Baby]

Originally Posted by Russic

Then again I can be a bit of a wet blanket when in a situation such as yours. When I feel I'm being disrespected I turn into a bit of a bitch.

+1

I can be the same way.

[troutman]

Tell them your 70 year old uncle is coming - Reverend Morty.

[J pold]

Grow a pair.

[jeremywilhelm]

Its for both in my mind. But then again, i've been to some epic bachelor parties. Im talking "the hangover" type shizz.

Some guys dont like the strippers for the bachelor parties, i've seen that, all you have to do is make sure that the girls are there for your friends and enjoy their enjoyment. Its pretty easy to tell them that you arent into it (the strippers and their bodyguards). Just deflect any unwanted poon your best mans way.

[FireFly]

Was at the bar Saturday and there was a stag going on... it was a karaoke bar. Good times were had by the groom and all his friends, I'm quite certain. Mind you a lot of them sang and quite well including the groom, but they did have him sing some ridiculous songs as well. Also helps if the girls at the pub are willing to sing to him as well, or if the groom's friends are willing to ask the female singers at the pub to sing songs to the groom. Fun, yet harmless. No poon involved.

[alltherage]

Originally Posted by J pold

Grow a pair.

I have no problem there man. I actually have a brain that needs more than tits and ass to be entertained. Why are you always so ######y?

[surferguy]

Originally Posted by Crazy Flamer

I'm glad this thread came up as I was about to start one like it.

This weekend, I am throwing a bachelor party for one of my best friends who will be getting married in a few weeks. He is a quiet kind of guy and has never been one to get really wild and crazy. So there will only really be four of us, including him.

HE has asked that his dad and his father-in-law to be not be invited, as he is doing something separately with them. He has also asked for no strippers. Fine.

But besides that, the only things he wants to do is to go play a round of golf, then have the four of us come back to my place, play XBOX and get smashed. To me, that;s kind of lame. I want to come up with some fun things we can do, but am having troubles coming up with some ideas.

Anybody got any?

Hold a mini Oylmpics in a park with him. Make every event and every person against him...

Example - a chipping challange - closet to the marker wins. If you beat his best chip, then you earn a shot, if he beats everybody then he earns a shot.

That way its fun for everybody as you are in a direct challenge with the groom. It also gets everybody drinking vs just shoving booze down the throat of the groom and watching him get destroyed because he will probably end up that in condition anyway.

Events we did were

Hockey shoot out, Leg wrestling tournament, high mark jump against a wall, and a cooler toss (discus throw). All were very entertaining.

Just a thought

[Rerun]

This thread brings back memories of when my best friend got married.

The groomsmen wanted to have strippers and all the rest, but the groom insisted on no strippers. His bachelor party consisted of 18 holes of golf and a few beers afterwards. What a drag!!

Why no strippers you ask? Because his bride to be TOTALLY objected to it! If she hadn't made such a stink he would have been all for it... we have been to strip bars before... had fun.... fun that is, before he started dating his bride to be.

After he met her he became totally whipped!!! Rarely did/does he ever partake in any activities that didn't include her ... including golf... and she doesn't play golf. Needless to say we never golfed together again, after he got married.

She ruined a good friendship.

Thank god my wife isn't like her.

[jeremywilhelm]

is that why you are mostly in the doghouse?

[Dion]

A good friend of mine got married last summer. For his stag we went to Lake Louise and took the chair to the top of the ski hill and hiked around the area for a couple of hours. Stopped in Banff for dinner on the way home and ended up at his place for some beers afterwards. That was his choice of what he wanted to do and everyone had a great time.

[Rerun]

Originally Posted by jeremywilhelm

is that why you are mostly in the doghouse?

LOL..

Nope... I think it has more to do with the fact that when she talks to me most times I just hear.... blah, blah, blah, blah...

[Rerun]

Originally Posted by alltherage

I have no problem there man. I actually have a brain that needs more than tits and ass to be entertained.

I guess I'm one of the dumb ones then...

Booze + music + flirty dancing hot looking naked women + lots of buddies + cigars = ENTERTAINMENT !!!!

[flip]

My 2 cents:

Obviously they want strippers. You don't. They really just want an excuse to live vicariously through you because they are either married and want to relive being single or they are single and want to experience being on the verge of being married. I think that if it was their wedding they'd want strippers, so they assume that you must want some also.

If they want strippers so bad why don't they just do it on another night and one of them can pretend they are getting married?

[Rerun]

I have an idea...

Start your bachelor party at 7
Start drinking real heavy right away.
Have the strippers come in at 11
By then you will be so drunk you will have passed out and you won't have to endure the horror of looking at a naked woman, or god forbid, being touched by one.
Then your groomsmen, who will still be conscious, can enjoy the show.

Everybody's happy.

[4X4]

Strippers are so lame. I mean, it had a novelty for a time, back when I just turned 18, but seriously, I don't get people that go to the strippers and chuck their paycheques at doped up skanks.

As for the OP, dude, your "friends" are a-holes. I don't see why they're so hung up on this. If you don't want strippers, there shouldn't be strippers. End of story. It's not unreasonable at all. The last two bachelor parties I attended were explicit "no strippers" parties. Both times because the grooms said (and only had to say it once) "no strippers".
One of them wanted to go on a bit of an adventure, so we rafted the red deer river and camped over night (and many of you will recall that that plan got derailed pretty badly), but the memory is epic. That's what he wanted. Something to remember. Not just getting idiot drunk at the bar after having some infected snatch rubbing all over his lap.
The other party was for someone who is religious and simply requested that we don't have them. It was a great time anyway. We rented a party bus and drove around getting drunk and bar hopped.

[Rerun]

I am totally amazed at how many people are anti-stripper here.
They are being called everything from skanks to disease infected whores.

Having a stag with strippers is tradition. Just because you have strippers at a stag doesn't mean you will end up drunk and come home with vd. There are a lot of girls who do this on the side and I imagine a lot of them are quite nice girls (you know the old story... stripping to put their way through college).
And just because they take their clothes off doesn't mean they will ###### you for $$$.

Now personally, I haven't been to a strip club in years (not really that interested anymore), but having a stag without strippers is going against a long held tradition. Also, the strippers are more for the groomsmen and all the other guests at the stag... not the groom. Frankly, I would loose a lot of respect for a groom who totally lost control at his stag and started fooling around with one of the girls.

... as for any unmarried groomsmen or other guests doing that? .... Go for it I say... all the more entertainment for everyone else.

[4X4]

Won't somebody please think of the strippers?!? Oh wait, Rerun's on it...

Just bugging ya. Maybe I didn't need to use the phrase infected snatch, but honestly, I just don't get the appeal. I'm sure if I got married my buddies would have a stripper, and I wouldn't mind, but if they didn't have one, I'd secretly be happy.

[J pold]

Originally Posted by alltherage

Why are you always so ######y?

Why are you afraid of strippers?

[chid]

tradition or not, if the groom doesn't want it, why disrespect his wishes??
I've gone to lots of strip joints and wouldn't care if my man wanted to go, but he's the one who thinks its a stupid waste of money.