08-11-2021, 11:24 AM
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#1301
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broke the first rule
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Back in April my son had a crash on his scooter and got banged up pretty good. It was something that he had so much fun with, and would get great exercise on it before it happened. But he got really gun-shy getting back on it as a result. 4 months later he finally got back on it (and I got back on mine as well to join him). My toddler wanted to get in on the action as well, so she got to go for a ride as well/refused to get off of mine, and we all had such a blast!
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08-12-2021, 01:05 PM
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#1303
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Income Tax Central
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Originally Posted by KTrain
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They do not. Thats insane.
A service was provided. Maslow himself wouldnt state that you need to re-pay tenants.
I gave you a place to live in exchange for some currency while you go to school. I am not making a crap-ton of cash on this deal.
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08-12-2021, 01:49 PM
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#1304
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ALL ABOARD!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Locke
They do not. Thats insane.
A service was provided. Maslow himself wouldnt state that you need to re-pay tenants.
I gave you a place to live in exchange for some currency while you go to school. I am not making a crap-ton of cash on this deal.
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On the flip side, he could have also made a crap-ton of money selling the place and decided to spread the wealth to those people who helped.
I'm not saying people should do this, or that I would either but that's a level of "good person" I would like to know existed.
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08-13-2021, 07:16 PM
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#1305
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Franchise Player
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Got out for a drive today, and really enjoyed it. Some beautiful scenery and a good time.
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08-13-2021, 08:32 PM
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#1306
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evil of fart
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Originally Posted by WhiteTiger
Got out for a drive today, and really enjoyed it. Some beautiful scenery and a good time.
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I would like to formally request a brake stand burnout from you.
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08-13-2021, 09:18 PM
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#1307
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Franchise Player
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Originally Posted by Sliver
I would like to formally request a brake stand burnout from you.
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You just want to see him go sideways into a crowd of bystanders, don't you?
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08-16-2021, 05:14 PM
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#1308
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Franchise Player
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Originally Posted by Fuzz
You just want to see him go sideways into a crowd of bystanders, don't you?
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08-18-2021, 05:22 AM
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#1309
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Not a casual user
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: A simple man leading a complicated life....
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I was going to write a post about the struggles with being a care giver to a parent, The sleepless nights where you struggle to get them to the bathroom and or having to wipe their bottom when they are done. Washing thier hair when needed or rubbing a leg that is in pain. Of course there's the numerous trips to the doctor and specialists. Dispite all that I took on the job with pride and I was happy that I could make difference in their life and make things less stressful and easier for them.
That all changed when my 84 year old mother passed away last night as she lost the battle with congestive heart failure and A fib. Her body was worn out and it was time.
I heard her yell that she needed help to sit up in bed. I asked what she wanted to do and she walked a few steps and grabbed on to her walker and sat down. Right then her head slumped down and her body started to go limp and she slumped over to her right side and slumped forward. I caught her and we both gently fell on the bedroom carpet. I looked into her eyes as we layed side by side asking her what was wrong. She couldn't speak and I watched her breathing become shallow and her eyes to flicker. I could see the life draining from her eyes as I was talking with a woman from 911 and then she was gone. Fire and ambulance were there a few minutes later and dispite their heroic efforts they couldn't save her.
I will always remember her face and eyes as she slowly passed away. I was devistated but knew that she knew that she didn't die alone and I was happy she got to see my loving face before she passed on. The bond we shared during the struggles of the past 4 weeks are memories that I will always take with me.
Never forget to tell a loved one that you love them. Thanks for letting me talk.
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08-18-2021, 06:22 AM
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#1310
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Flames Town
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
I was going to write a post about the struggles with being a care giver to a parent, The sleepless nights where you struggle to get them to the bathroom and or having to wipe their bottom when they are done. Washing thier hair when needed or rubbing a leg that is in pain. Of course there's the numerous trips to the doctor and specialists. Dispite all that I took on the job with pride and I was happy that I could make difference in their life and make things less stressful and easier for them.
That all changed when my 84 year old mother passed away last night as she lost the battle with congestive heart failure and A fib. Her body was worn out and it was time.
I heard her yell that she needed help to sit up in bed. I asked what she wanted to do and she walked a few steps and grabbed on to her walker and sat down. Right then her head slumped down and her body started to go limp and she slumped over to her right side and slumped forward. I caught her and we both gently fell on the bedroom carpet. I looked into her eyes as we layed side by side asking her what was wrong. She couldn't speak and I watched her breathing become shallow and her eyes to flicker. I could see the life draining from her eyes as I was talking with a woman from 911 and then she was gone. Fire and ambulance were there a few minutes later and dispite their heroic efforts they couldn't save her.
I will always remember her face and eyes as she slowly passed away. I was devistated but knew that she knew that she didn't die alone and I was happy she got to see my loving face before she passed on. The bond we shared during the struggles of the past 4 weeks are memories that I will always take with me.
Never forget to tell a loved one that you love them. Thanks for letting me talk.
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My sincere condolences Dion. Over the years, I have read numerous posts when you have talked about your mom. Really glad that you were able to spend time together and wish you the very best with coping. Feel free to reach out if you ever want to chat as I am available to listen.
May she rest in peace.
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08-18-2021, 08:48 AM
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#1311
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Franchise Player
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Very noble thing to have looked after her in her old age. My condolences, but the fact that you posted that in this thread I think means you are at peace with things.
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08-18-2021, 10:23 AM
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#1312
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wins 10 internets
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: slightly to the left
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It sounds like she lived a very full life and had someone who loved her to take care of her right to the end. We should all be so lucky to have that kind of passing, and good on you for making it happen Dion
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08-18-2021, 10:35 AM
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#1313
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Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: On your last nerve...:D
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I'm so sorry, Dion. I know how much you loved her and were loved by her. I know a little bit about caregiving (not to a parent) and how difficult but rewarding it can be. It was truly a gift you gave her, caring for her as you did for so many years. I hope that you will be able to find some comfort in the many happy memories you have of her. A friend wrote these words, after going through a few losses, and they've always brought me some comfort; I hope they do you as well.
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08-18-2021, 10:54 AM
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#1314
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Moscow
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
I was going to write a post about the struggles with being a care giver to a parent, The sleepless nights where you struggle to get them to the bathroom and or having to wipe their bottom when they are done. Washing thier hair when needed or rubbing a leg that is in pain. Of course there's the numerous trips to the doctor and specialists. Dispite all that I took on the job with pride and I was happy that I could make difference in their life and make things less stressful and easier for them.
That all changed when my 84 year old mother passed away last night as she lost the battle with congestive heart failure and A fib. Her body was worn out and it was time.
I heard her yell that she needed help to sit up in bed. I asked what she wanted to do and she walked a few steps and grabbed on to her walker and sat down. Right then her head slumped down and her body started to go limp and she slumped over to her right side and slumped forward. I caught her and we both gently fell on the bedroom carpet. I looked into her eyes as we layed side by side asking her what was wrong. She couldn't speak and I watched her breathing become shallow and her eyes to flicker. I could see the life draining from her eyes as I was talking with a woman from 911 and then she was gone. Fire and ambulance were there a few minutes later and dispite their heroic efforts they couldn't save her.
I will always remember her face and eyes as she slowly passed away. I was devistated but knew that she knew that she didn't die alone and I was happy she got to see my loving face before she passed on. The bond we shared during the struggles of the past 4 weeks are memories that I will always take with me.
Never forget to tell a loved one that you love them. Thanks for letting me talk.
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This was beautiful and honestly moved me to tears (at my desk).
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09-07-2021, 06:59 PM
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#1315
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First Line Centre
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Near Fish Creek
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Today my Wife finished her Chemo … and she rang the bell like it was a fire alarm.
So proud of her courage and resilience.
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09-07-2021, 09:47 PM
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#1316
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Franchise Player
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Dion, that was beautiful.
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09-09-2021, 11:54 AM
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#1317
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Sylvan Lake
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My daughter starting 1st year university.
She is a 17 yr old ball of fire.
I marvel at her daily.
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Corporal Jean-Marc H. BECHARD, 6 Aug 1993
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sliver
Just ignore me...I'm in a mood today.
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09-09-2021, 12:15 PM
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#1318
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Franchise Player
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Quote:
Originally Posted by undercoverbrother
My daughter starting 1st year university.
She is a 17 yr old ball of fire.
I marvel at her daily.
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Congrats UCB. Mine just started her 4th year, where does time go.
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09-09-2021, 12:37 PM
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#1319
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Franchise Player
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
I was going to write a post about the struggles with being a care giver to a parent, The sleepless nights where you struggle to get them to the bathroom and or having to wipe their bottom when they are done. Washing thier hair when needed or rubbing a leg that is in pain. Of course there's the numerous trips to the doctor and specialists. Dispite all that I took on the job with pride and I was happy that I could make difference in their life and make things less stressful and easier for them.
That all changed when my 84 year old mother passed away last night as she lost the battle with congestive heart failure and A fib. Her body was worn out and it was time.
I heard her yell that she needed help to sit up in bed. I asked what she wanted to do and she walked a few steps and grabbed on to her walker and sat down. Right then her head slumped down and her body started to go limp and she slumped over to her right side and slumped forward. I caught her and we both gently fell on the bedroom carpet. I looked into her eyes as we layed side by side asking her what was wrong. She couldn't speak and I watched her breathing become shallow and her eyes to flicker. I could see the life draining from her eyes as I was talking with a woman from 911 and then she was gone. Fire and ambulance were there a few minutes later and dispite their heroic efforts they couldn't save her.
I will always remember her face and eyes as she slowly passed away. I was devistated but knew that she knew that she didn't die alone and I was happy she got to see my loving face before she passed on. The bond we shared during the struggles of the past 4 weeks are memories that I will always take with me.
Never forget to tell a loved one that you love them. Thanks for letting me talk.
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Dion, thanks for sharing something so intimate, and personal. May your memories of her be easy, and may you find peace during this sorrow.
RIP.
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09-11-2021, 02:21 PM
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#1320
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Franchise Player
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Sylvan Lake
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Just had coffee (3hr) with a mate I haven’t seen in 5+ years
Felt wonderful to see him and hug him.
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Corporal Jean-Marc H. BECHARD, 6 Aug 1993
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Just ignore me...I'm in a mood today.
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