Virgin Auction

[KelVarnsen]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Shes not a decent person if shes lied to him about her past and built their marriage on lies. If the guy doesn't care about her past or knows and doesn't care then its all good.

So you want to know how many guys your girlfriend/wife has been with? Really?

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Shes not a decent person if shes lied to him about her past and built their marriage on lies. If the guy doesn't care about her past or knows and doesn't care then its all good.

Okay, but seriously why is it any of his business what her past is like if she's a good, devoted woman now? I kinda think the "what's your number?" conversation rarely has positive results. What about girls who sleep with guys they think are into them, but have it turn out that the guy was a total d-bag who played them? Are they sluts, too?

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by KelVarnsen

So you want to know how many guys your girlfriend/wife has been with? Really?

Yes

[KelVarnsen]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Yes

Wow.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Yes

I don't understand why. If you're seeing a girl who's been in five longterm relationships vs. a girl who's had 20 one-night stands or flings, who do you think has had more sex?

[jhunt223]

Not an exact number, but I want to know generally what I'm dealing with. I wouldn't want tons of men to have known my wife that way.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by rubecube

I don't understand why. If you're seeing a girl who's been in five longterm relationships vs. a girl who's had 20 one-night stands or flings, who do you think has had more sex?

It's about their attitudes towards sex and not necessarily the amount of times they have had sex. I simply wouldn't trust a lady who has been with tons of guys throughout her life.

[KelVarnsen]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Not an exact number, but I want to know generally what I'm dealing with. I wouldn't want tons of men to have known my wife that way.

Let's say you meet this woman, who you instantly like and have chemistry with, but she has a wild past. She has since matured and grown up, you would reject her because she was "slutty" when she was young?

[WilderPegasus]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

Yes

And if she made videos with those guys would you want to watch them?

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

It's about their attitudes towards sex and not necessarily the amount of times they have had sex. I simply wouldn't trust a lady who has been with tons of guys throughout her life.

I would, clearly she has tasted the fruit of the loins and has picked you.


You pick a women that has only been with 5 men, she might wonder what she is missing.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by KelVarnsen

Let's say you meet this woman, who you instantly like and have chemistry with, but she has a wild past. She has since matured and grown up, you would reject her because she was "slutty" when she was young?

I would still worry that she could very quickly revert back to her old ways when she gets a couple dry martinis in her while shes away on business. Any lady could of course, but I put my money on the old skank to revert back to her old ways over one that was a nice girl throughout her whole life personally.

[jhunt223]

Originally Posted by undercoverbrother

I would, clearly she has tasted the fruit of the loins and has picked you.


You pick a women that has only been with 5 men, she might wonder what she is missing.

It could be that shes picked you or it could be that shes settled for you. You could be the only person shes found willing to marry her and not just toss her in the trash where she belongs.

[KelVarnsen]

Sounds to me like someone has lack of respect/trust towards women.

I know it was asked, but how old are you?

[The Fonz]

I'm the opposite. I'd trust the girl who has experienced other men, and chose me, versus the girl who's never known the wildside.

If she's never had it, and now she's with you, she'll probably be a lot more curious and excited by the idea. We all want what we can't/haven't had.

[jhunt223]

Mid twenties. Closer to 30.

[rubecube]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

I would still worry that she could very quickly revert back to her old ways when she gets a couple dry martinis in her while shes away on business. Any lady could of course, but I put my money on the old skank to revert back to her old ways over one that was a nice girl throughout her whole life personally.

Really? I'd put money on the girl who hadn't had a lot of sexual partners because of the whole "what am I missing out on" factor.

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

It could be that shes picked you or it could be that shes settled for you. You could be the only person shes found willing to marry her and not just toss her in the trash where she belongs.

wow......just wow......

[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by rubecube

Really? I'd put money on the girl who hadn't had a lot of sexual partners because of the whole "what am I missing out on" factor.

Yep agreed.

[WilderPegasus]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

I would still worry that she could very quickly revert back to her old ways when she gets a couple dry martinis in her while shes away on business. Any lady could of course, but I put my money on the old skank to revert back to her old ways over one that was a nice girl throughout her whole life personally.

Which would you rather be with? A woman who has been with dozens of men or a woman who has been with only 3 men but dozens of women?

[Nyah]

Originally Posted by jhunt223

It could be that shes picked you or it could be that shes settled for you. You could be the only person shes found willing to marry her and not just toss her in the trash where she belongs.

Wow.