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Originally Posted by Doctordestiny
Let me tell you the kind of Christian I am. I've commented behind your point. - Homosexuals shouldn't be allowed to marry - I don't believe homosexuals should be allowed to legally marry. If they want a union ceremony, fine. Just don't marry them. I think it threatens the family. I am tolerant of homsexuals and have some as friends and business associates, by the way.
- Stem cell research is wrong - I don't know. Don't know enough about it. If it doesn't destroy a life, I'm fine with it.
- A woman should be forced to bring an unwanted child into the world. - I'm opposed to abortion for the reason you've stated. I consider it taking a human life. I don't think we should take a human life for any reason, except self defence or equivalent.
- The natural world exists to serve man - I think it does.
- Humanity is the center of the universe - I think we are, although I don't discount the possibility of there being other races created by God.
- Don't question the bible/word of God - I don't question the word of God, but don't believe the Bible is entirely to be taken literally.
It's insulting when we're called stupid for believing as we do. I think our beliefs are valid and make total sense. I happen to believe that the theory of all this around us happening randomly makes little sense. There are some very intelligent people (including some of the greatest scientific minds of our time) who are Christians. A book I read by one of those brilliant scientists who was athiest and became Christian through his research is what turned me from a fence-sitter into a believer. It is the most amazing book I've ever read, so I read it twice in succession. I guess my point is that I feel that Christian ideas make sense and it insults when we're discounted as idiots for having those beliefs. We're not idiots; we just happen to disagree with you.
And yes I realize that there are also some great scientific minds who are not believers. Please don't bring that up as a rebuttal to my point.
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Thanks for your frank and thorough response.
Your answers have demonstrated precisely why so many people have issues with not just Christianity, but organized religion as a whole. You posted that you felt Christianity had morals and values that improved life. Then you replied to my post exactly as I feared you might - intolerance, selfishness (on the part of humanity, not an a personal level), and willfull blindness dressed up as "faith".
The beliefs of your faith are causing harm to others, and I hope you will take pause to examine them. I don't expect to change anyone's mind, but hopefully we can all occasionally take a breath and ask ourselves why we believe what we do.
The fact you don't believe homosexuals should have the right to marry means that you don't believe in equality. The word "bigot" is really really ugly - but if you think an adult in our society shouldn't have the same rights as any other of our adults, then I'm afraid that is what you are. It's nothing new - 50 years ago lots of people felt that interracial marriage was wrong. Now such an idea is considered racist. And rightly so.
Given that opposition to equal rights for homosexuals breaks starkly down generational lines, its pretty clear 50 years from now opposition to marriage based on sexuality will be similarly viewed. Most of the developed world recognizes it now anyway. It certainly hasn't threatened anyone's marriage so far.
A personal question - If you have a child - don't you want that child to have the same rights as every other child, regardless of what their personal circumstance is?
My layman's understanding of stem cell research - cells taken from unused embryos used for invitro fertilization (most fertility clinics create many potential embryos, but once conception occurs, don't need the extra ones). Great potential for developing treatments for degenerative diseases like Alzheimers or MS. Opposition stems from the belief that life begins at the moment of conception, and even a few cells in a test tube constitute a human life.
Abortion - I think there is a far greater harm in bringing unwanted children into the world and abandoning them, then there is for a woman to recognize she isn't ready for motherhood, and having an abortion. If you don't support abortion, then I hope you are doing your part and have adopted a few unwanted kids.
And since I live in Texas - please write a letter to our governor expressing how important it is to stop killing inmates, and another to our president (and your Prime Minister) asking to bring the troops back home - because lives are being lost there too.
The natural world exists to serve man - That is one of the most selfish, self centered tenants of faith, and it really blows my gaskets. We've done quite a number on this planet thanks in part to that very misguided belief. Greed also plays a huge role, but at the end of the day, this world got along just fine for a long time before us, and will continue to do so long after humanity is dust. Surely you recognize what a minute speck we are in the universe? Do you think it revolves around us?
Nature is a complex system, and we are but a tiny part of that system. We are doing our very best to knock it out now though - thanks to overpopulation, and horrifically bad resource management. It would be far better for humanity to be aware that not everything is about us, and it's more important to have trees for cleaning the air, than as firewood.
As to the bible - how do you pick what parts are true and what parts aren't? And how do you trust the "true parts", when you know there are (apparently) lies in there too?
I don't know how anyone can expect not be ridiculed when their beliefs are in conflict with enlightened progressive society. Nobody likes to be made fun of. You get to believe whatever you want in our society - which is great! But when you start telling others (homosexuals, pregnant women) what they should and shouldn't do... well now your beliefs are in conflict with what we should all strive for.
Back to my original post - I believe in equality, tolerance, and understanding of this world through the pursuit of knowledge. Any religion that promotes (or at least does not attempt to impede) those values is ok by me.
Sadly - your version of Christianity doesn't appear to hold those values as important.