Calgarypuck Forums - The Unofficial Calgary Flames Fan Community

Go Back   Calgarypuck Forums - The Unofficial Calgary Flames Fan Community > Main Forums > Fire on Ice: The Calgary Flames Forum
Register Forum Rules FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 09-19-2015, 08:23 PM   #1121
justafan
Crash and Bang Winger
 
justafan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Calgary
Exp:
Default

So DNA from her scratching and being bitten on shoulder. A condom being used wouldn't be unheard of as not only DNA but disease and unwanted pregnacy can result. Interesting but not sure how it affects the investigation. Guess we will see.
justafan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2015, 09:02 PM   #1122
Hackey
Franchise Player
 
Hackey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Exp:
Default

If it's extremely rare as the former DA says in the article then I can only see it helping Kane. I'd be curious to know if the cases where it did happen if concealing the persons identity was the motivating factor or not.
Hackey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2015, 09:09 PM   #1123
justafan
Crash and Bang Winger
 
justafan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Calgary
Exp:
Default

Other attorneys said it does happen, the wearing of condoms. If Kane, or others, are in the habit of not wearing condoms with random sex partners then they must like the idea of children. Thats gonna cost alot of $$ too. If it was consentual sex you would think a big shot athlete would know to protect himself. If assault, well, more so you would think. Interesting development but not exactly unheard of.
justafan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:34 AM   #1124
combustiblefuel
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Nanaimo
Exp:
Default

Could be a case of it got to the point of lets have sex then her changing her mind. I'm all infavor for rough sex but leaving a bite mark and scratching hard enough to leave enough dna under finger nails is what has me on the fence. It leaves me thinking that sex was being performed but after the biting it may have been over the edge for her and she said no more but Kane didn't stop. Which is why I beleive both parties feel they have such a strong case on either side

That is still rape. If you don't stop when your partner says no then anything after that is rape. It's the only scenario to me that fits right now. It started as consensual and got to violent for her .
combustiblefuel is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:39 AM   #1125
combustiblefuel
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Nanaimo
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by justafan View Post
Other attorneys said it does happen, the wearing of condoms. If Kane, or others, are in the habit of not wearing condoms with random sex partners then they must like the idea of children. Thats gonna cost alot of $$ too. If it was consentual sex you would think a big shot athlete would know to protect himself. If assault, well, more so you would think. Interesting development but not exactly unheard of.
Ot but....
NSFW!

Last edited by combustiblefuel; 09-20-2015 at 06:56 AM.
combustiblefuel is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:45 AM   #1126
combustiblefuel
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Nanaimo
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by jayswin View Post
Wow, huge development. As they stated, it's not the end of the investigation, but at the very least a full on rape charge seems quite unlikely at this point.
All it means is that he didn't ejaculate in her.
combustiblefuel is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to combustiblefuel For This Useful Post:
Sol
Old 09-20-2015, 02:18 AM   #1127
T@T
Lifetime Suspension
 
T@T's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by jayswin View Post
Wow, huge development. As they stated, it's not the end of the investigation, but at the very least a full on rape charge seems quite unlikely at this point.
What? Is this a full on rape or just a partial rape in your mind?

Huge development my ass, he either attacked the chick or he didn't, who cares if he was carefull about making a baby?
T@T is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to T@T For This Useful Post:
Sol
Old 09-20-2015, 02:21 AM   #1128
combustiblefuel
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Nanaimo
Exp:
Default

Wrong thread

Last edited by combustiblefuel; 09-20-2015 at 06:54 AM.
combustiblefuel is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 07:04 AM   #1129
Alberta_Beef
Franchise Player
 
Alberta_Beef's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Resurrection View Post
and where are they getting these numbers? their own survey? its a fairly long document that I dont want to read to be quite honest.
the DOJ would take the stance that if it's not reported it didn't happen and it only happened if they are found guilty. So it is an extremely skewed statistic. So their numbers would be better described as rape convictions per 1000 people. And that would backup the findings that it is less common at a college because it's widely known that rapes by College students are far less likely to be reported.
Alberta_Beef is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Alberta_Beef For This Useful Post:
Sol
Old 09-20-2015, 11:20 AM   #1130
Hackey
Franchise Player
 
Hackey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by combustiblefuel View Post
Could be a case of it got to the point of lets have sex then her changing her mind. I'm all infavor for rough sex but leaving a bite mark and scratching hard enough to leave enough dna under finger nails is what has me on the fence. It leaves me thinking that sex was being performed but after the biting it may have been over the edge for her and she said no more but Kane didn't stop. Which is why I beleive both parties feel they have such a strong case on either side

That is still rape. If you don't stop when your partner says no then anything after that is rape. It's the only scenario to me that fits right now. It started as consensual and got to violent for her .
I'm not an expert but getting DNA under your fingernails is probably pretty easy. Rubbing nails across someones back or body during sex seems pretty normal. Bite marks I think you'd have to know more specifics to judge. There could be a wide spectrum of what that means. Kane could have been out of control and bit her. She could have told him to do it. I think in the end though they should be able to match up the evidence with each's story. If all the evidence matches with one persons story of events and doesn't with the others then thats probably a good indication of whos telling the truth and whos lieing. With the public we have partial evidence so were likely going to view it how we want depending on who we believe more.
Hackey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:21 PM   #1131
powderjunkie
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by CliffFletcher View Post
Indeed. But what I find troubling about these conversations is the implication that men are far more likely to be horrible persons than women are. That's clearly a sexist attitude. Men's awfulness tends to manifest in different ways than women's awfulness (men are more likely to be violent), but I see no reason to believe awfulness isn't evenly distributed between the genders.
Men's awful behaviour is more likely to negatively impact other people (both in possible violence, but also the power men tend to have in society). ####ty women certainly can harm others, but not as frequently or to the same extent as men IMO.

It's a silly question to even pose, but which transgression is more egregious? Raping someone, or falsely accusing someone of rape? Both things suck, but there is no doubt in my mind that an actual action is worse than a false accusation.
powderjunkie is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to powderjunkie For This Useful Post:
Old 09-20-2015, 01:44 PM   #1132
Hackey
Franchise Player
 
Hackey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Exp:
Default

That's kind of a strange stance. If Kane went to jail for 3 years, lost his contract and endorsements, never played in the NHL again, had a a rape conviction on his criminal record, and was viewed as a rapist for the rest of his life by his friends, family, and the general public for a crime he didn't commit I'd say that would be pretty bad. Its tough to not take sides but thats a dangerous thing. This is something you want to make sure you get right and its easy to have biases.
Hackey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:47 PM   #1133
CliffFletcher
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: May 2006
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by powderjunkie View Post
Both things suck, but there is no doubt in my mind that an actual action is worse than a false accusation.
Agreed. What it comes to is we have no problem at all believing many men capable of doing something that's a 9 out of 10 on the awfulness scale, but if you suggest some women are capable of doing something that is a 7 out of 10 on the awfulness scale, you must be some kind of misogynist.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by fotze View Post
If this day gets you riled up, you obviously aren't numb to the disappointment yet to be a real fan.
CliffFletcher is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 01:49 PM   #1134
justafan
Crash and Bang Winger
 
justafan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Calgary
Exp:
Default

I think he's referring to the violence and damage that rape causes. Also it was about how men can cause more damage, in a physical way, than women can.
justafan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 11:09 PM   #1135
powderjunkie
Franchise Player
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hackey View Post
That's kind of a strange stance. If Kane went to jail for 3 years, lost his contract and endorsements, never played in the NHL again, had a a rape conviction on his criminal record, and was viewed as a rapist for the rest of his life by his friends, family, and the general public for a crime he didn't commit I'd say that would be pretty bad. Its tough to not take sides but thats a dangerous thing. This is something you want to make sure you get right and its easy to have biases.
Ya, that would suck. That is exactly why the legal process is so rigid and convictions are difficult to achieve. It is highly, highly, highly unlikely (i.e. nearly impossible) that your scenario would happen if Kane had really done absolutely nothing wrong. These kinds of cases tend to live in the grey area, where multiple things can be true and levels of guilt, innocence, intent and misunderstanding are variable (and as such the resulting judgments tend to take this into account).

I'm sad to say that I believe there are far, far more very guilty people walking free compared to completely innocent folks in jail.
powderjunkie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-20-2015, 11:21 PM   #1136
zamler
Lifetime Suspension
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by powderjunkie View Post
I'm sad to say that I believe there are far, far more very guilty people walking free compared to completely innocent folks in jail.
This may be true but it is not confined to only rape. BTW I watched a vid the other day about a guy that was in prison for 10 years for molesting his kids, it never happened. The wife made the entire thing up (and was having an affair with one of the prosecutors) so it is not unheard of for convictions to be made even with no physical evidence. The kids sadly were coerced and now feel guilty even though they did nothing wrong.
zamler is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-21-2015, 01:02 AM   #1137
Hackey
Franchise Player
 
Hackey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by powderjunkie View Post
Ya, that would suck. That is exactly why the legal process is so rigid and convictions are difficult to achieve. It is highly, highly, highly unlikely (i.e. nearly impossible) that your scenario would happen if Kane had really done absolutely nothing wrong. These kinds of cases tend to live in the grey area, where multiple things can be true and levels of guilt, innocence, intent and misunderstanding are variable (and as such the resulting judgments tend to take this into account).

I'm sad to say that I believe there are far, far more very guilty people walking free compared to completely innocent folks in jail.
Happened to Brian Banks. Might have happened to Tyson. I'm sure there are plenty of examples if you actually look into it. DNA testing has exonerated a lot of men who were convicted when the science didn't exist. Even the United States Department of Justice says almost 1 in 10 accusations are false. As you say the evidence should do the talking but in these cases the evidence is usually minimal and difficult to decipher. At the end of the day I think we just need to keep an open mind in order to be fair to everyone.
Hackey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-21-2015, 01:19 AM   #1138
gargamel
First Line Centre
 
gargamel's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Cambodia
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by powderjunkie View Post
I'm sad to say that I believe there are far, far more very guilty people walking free compared to completely innocent folks in jail.
There's nothing sad about that.
gargamel is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to gargamel For This Useful Post:
Old 09-21-2015, 02:48 AM   #1139
longsuffering
First Line Centre
 
longsuffering's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hackey View Post
Happened to Brian Banks. Might have happened to Tyson. I'm sure there are plenty of examples if you actually look into it. DNA testing has exonerated a lot of men who were convicted when the science didn't exist. Even the United States Department of Justice says almost 1 in 10 accusations are false. As you say the evidence should do the talking but in these cases the evidence is usually minimal and difficult to decipher. At the end of the day I think we just need to keep an open mind in order to be fair to everyone.
Fair to everyone?

Does being "fair and open-minded" extend to the alleged victim as well? Because it sure seems like you're not applying the same standard to her.

You're only granting the benefit of the doubt to one person in this situation.
longsuffering is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-21-2015, 06:21 AM   #1140
T@T
Lifetime Suspension
 
T@T's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Exp:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hackey View Post
Happened to Brian Banks. Might have happened to Tyson. I'm sure there are plenty of examples if you actually look into it. DNA testing has exonerated a lot of men who were convicted when the science didn't exist. Even the United States Department of Justice says almost 1 in 10 accusations are false. As you say the evidence should do the talking but in these cases the evidence is usually minimal and difficult to decipher. At the end of the day I think we just need to keep an open mind in order to be fair to everyone.
The law isn't perfect but I would bet for every wrongful rape conviction there's at least a 1000 that get away with it.
T@T is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -6. The time now is 08:22 AM.

Calgary Flames
2024-25




Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright Calgarypuck 2021 | See Our Privacy Policy