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Originally Posted by Ozy_Flame
I disagree - you have to establish yourself as different from all the other dime-a-dozen bozos she's dated before, especially if you're trying to leave her with a lasting impression wanting more.
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Ya, Ozy_Flame, I definitely get what you and Sadora are saying. You do want to stand out somehow. I guess I'd advocate not doing something you're not comfortable with, or doing something overblown or different, simply for the sake of standing out (though I realize you guys aren't saying that).
I suppose my take is that most people don't go on that many dates. I mean, not really. If you can snag a date with her, she probably already thinks you're unique. So my advice is to play that up, and put you both in a situation where you can be the center of each other's attention. My thinking is that, if you do a wine tasting or something like that, then the activity becomes the center of your attention. This can be a good thing, as it provides some common ground, but if it's not something you already share, I could see it becoming awkward real quick.
As for Leykis... well, that's where we disagree. What a total ######bag that guy is. (Sorry, just a pet peeve of mine... misogyny masquerading as 'telling it like it really is').
