What are your thoughts on Girls who have several kids all with different fathers

[mikey_the_redneck]

Originally Posted by THE SCUD

If I wasn't sure you're a single divorcee before, I am now!

I'm all for a move back to the 1950's and all, as a selfish dude who wants live-in-help, but you and Dissenter (sp?) both sound like super scorned and bitter divorcees.

Never been divorced....

....never been married either. I'm still contemplating that one....

My parents just had their 30th anniversary but a fair number of people around me, including some co-workers and close friends have been absolutely bent over by the system.

[mikey_the_redneck]

Originally Posted by troutman

I never met a client that was motivated to divorce because of perceived "incentives" available through law. It was always a painful decision, motivated by unhappiness. In fact, most clients seek less then they are "entitled" to.

Yeah ...people go from happy to not happy quickly these days...ADD culture.

I was being sarcastic by using "incentive"..... that's a strong word.
Lets just say the grass on the other side of the fence has been fertilized and watered by the long arm of the law.

[calgaryred]

I think



Maury Povich

[darklord700]

Originally Posted by IliketoPuck

Everyone knows you can't get pregnant if the girl is on top.

Or take shower after with vinegar.

[CaptainCrunch]

or do it in the butt

[DuffMan]

anal and/or oral until she is on the pill.

[Stay Golden]

Where I get my haircut there is a girl that works there that has photos at her station on the mirror. I asked whats with all the kids? Some are white some black She said they are all hers.
She is not married 2 are from 1 dude, 3 from seperate guys. She is 25. wtf.

[CaptainCrunch]

[SeeBass]

If you have to ask you are already doing it wrong.

[Bring_Back_Shantz]

Originally Posted by Champion

Not too highly honestly. I dated my wife for 8 years long distance before we got married. She is a teacher and we make over $300 000/year(Not bragging I have a business) and now I feel I am ready to have a kid. I wanted to make sure I was stable.

I just turned 29 and my wife just turned 30 as well.

I'm also East Indian I don't know if that factors into it.

Pretty sure you are.

[KTown]

Originally Posted by Champion

Not too highly honestly. I dated my wife for 8 years long distance before we got married. She is a teacher and we make over $300 000/year(Not bragging I have a business) and now I feel I am ready to have a kid. I wanted to make sure I was stable.

I just turned 29 and my wife just turned 30 as well.

I'm also East Indian I don't know if that factors into it.

I hope it works out for you and you don't en up like the 50 some odd percent of us because you will be so screwed if there is a divorce. I am speaking from experience.

[KTown]

Originally Posted by corporatejay

1. You are clueless. There is no "incentive" to get divorced. Sure it is a lot easier than it used to be, but it's not like there is a massive economic windfall from getting divorced.

2. Is this a bad thing?

I beg to differ. Have you experienced divorce? The laws in Canada are a joke. If you want details I will share, but its off topic so I will leave it out for now.

[KTown]

Originally Posted by SeeBass

My mother is 80 and she has stayed with my dad in spite of the times he would beat her and us. The endless abuse and drinking was pure hell for a child to grow up in.
I wish she would have left him, but she was afraid to and we had no place to go.
Back then if society would be more like today and not like you wish it was my mother may have had a chance or at least an option.

As sad as your story is and I have sympathy since my dad was part of an abusive family. The reality of it is that for the 10% of the people that really need to get out of a marriage the laws are there. The other 90% get screwed because the other 90% get to leach off the system put in place for people that really need it.

[Deegee]

Originally Posted by troutman

I never met a client that was motivated to divorce because of perceived "incentives" available through law. It was always a painful decision, motivated by unhappiness. In fact, most clients seek less then they are "entitled" to.

To be quite honest, although this is true, the system is pretty amazing.

As a Credit Union Manager, it often amazes me what spouses get in divorce settlements, especially when dealing with corporate farms. It's like the one spouse doesn't care about the longevity of the operation or the legacy that they are destroying for the child who stands to inherit the operation.

In some sick way, although we're happy in life, it kind of makes me wish that my wife and I never got married, never had kids, or never moved in together.