Odd question about relationships

[JiriHrdina]

Oooh a 7 year old - gotta make sure your serious off the hop with a gal that's got a kid already. No messen' around with that.

[Flames_Gimp]

there is so much false info in this thread i don't even know where to begin llol

[flip]

Originally Posted by Flames_Gimp

there is so much false info in this thread i don't even know where to begin llol

Well why don't we start with the obvious stuff?

Like the fact that anyone on CP (but me of course) has ever been laid before.

[Flames_Gimp]

ya, dating advice on an internet forum...lol

[sadora]

Originally Posted by JiriHrdina

Oooh a 7 year old - gotta make sure your serious off the hop with a gal that's got a kid already. No messen' around with that.

The funny thing about that and the main reason why I didn't push towards going all the way on saturday night was this quote from Jerry Maguire...it seriously played through my head while we were in bed.

But a real man wouldn't shoplift the pootie from a single mom

[albertGQ]

So you haven't even met up with her yet? So obviously dinner and mini-golf is out of the picture. I'd just go to a lounge for some drinks. I wouldn't go for a kiss when I greet her. I'd give her a cheezy high-five. That'll break the ice guaranteed.

Start the conversation casual. While you're both enjoying your first drinks, ask her what her favourite shot is. Order a round of that AND a round of your favourite shot (it's only fair she does a shot you pick if you have to do a shot she picks). She'll definately loosen up and you can basically dictate where you want to go with the conversations. If you want to talk about sex and she doesn't yet, order another round of shots. Hard booze hits chix hard.

Once it gets close to closing time, tell her you're having so much fun, you want to continue having some drinks with her. That's when you take her back to your place where you have cupboards full of liquor. Put on some tunes, have some drinks and you are in. 100% foolproof

[FireFly]

A corner of the lips kiss. Like you're kissing her cheek only not quite.

[Drunk Skunk]

Originally Posted by Singe

Drunk Skunk...
You're offically in a relationship with her when she starts leaving her back-up box of tampax at your place. She's marking her territory with it, as well as having an emergency kit for those flowing fun days.
From experience.

She and I have been 'seeing each other' for about a month. She still doesn't know where I live. I walked home, six miles, from the hotel on Sunday morning to make sure of that.

:EDIT:

Just to be clear, I wasn't looking for any advice - I'm in a pretty great position right now.

[malcolmk14]

Originally Posted by albertGQ

So you haven't even met up with her yet? So obviously dinner and mini-golf is out of the picture. I'd just go to a lounge for some drinks. I wouldn't go for a kiss when I greet her. I'd give her a cheezy high-five. That'll break the ice guaranteed.

Start the conversation casual. While you're both enjoying your first drinks, ask her what her favourite shot is. Order a round of that AND a round of your favourite shot (it's only fair she does a shot you pick if you have to do a shot she picks). She'll definately loosen up and you can basically dictate where you want to go with the conversations. If you want to talk about sex and she doesn't yet, order another round of shots. Hard booze hits chix hard.

Once it gets close to closing time, tell her you're having so much fun, you want to continue having some drinks with her. That's when you take her back to your place where you have cupboards full of liquor. Put on some tunes, have some drinks and you are in. 100% foolproof

Perfect advice, except I'd go for the quick kiss when I greet her. You've already fooled around, get the awkwardness out of the way asap.

[T@T]

Originally Posted by StoneCole

I disagree.

I disagree with your disagree!

One poke doesn't make a relationship

[jeremywilhelm]

Originally Posted by Drunk Skunk

She and I have been 'seeing each other' for about a month. She still doesn't know where I live. I walked home, six miles, from the hotel on Sunday morning to make sure of that.

:EDIT:

Just to be clear, I wasn't looking for any advice - I'm in a pretty great position right now.

Nice, i dont take girls to my house either. Its her place or the truck!

[Drunk Skunk]

It's not that I never take girls home - I just prefer to find out if they are the type that will, oh, I don't know, slash all my tires or burn my house down.

Plus, it was really nice on Sunday morning, and I needed to walk off a hangover.

[flip]

Originally Posted by jeremywilhelm

Nice, i dont take girls to my house either. Its her place or the truck!

Quoted for hilarity. The exclamation point really did it.

[flip]

I'm totally in the friend zone with a chick I know and it is kind of strange. Normally friend zone girls are fugly because otherwise I'd be nailing them, or at least trying to. Weird part is that I think I wouldn't ruin the friendship just for sex, even though she's pretty hot. I feel kind of weird because I get the occasional feeling that I should be hitting that but then it just passes.

I think I may have reached that age where I act my age...ok maybe not but all the time but at least sometimes.

[mikey_the_redneck]

Originally Posted by sadora

Hey CP, I didn't want to start another thread with this question so I figured this was the best place to put it and I'll try to keep this down to the details.

So, Saturday night some recently married friends of mine, better friends with the girl, had a party at their house. I met my friend's sister for the first time and hit it off with her right away. So much that we spent the night together in the guest room, not doing anything major but just enough. So we've been talking quite a bit since and are going out on a date tonight. So CP, and I hope you can help to shed some light on this, first of all where is there really good to go on a Tuesday night and my second question, since we've already kissed and slept together, no sex, only slept together what's the protocol for when I greet her? Do I go for kiss on the lips or on the cheek?

I've been single for a while so most of my hook ups in the recent past have been more casual than anything, one nights and such. But since she's a very good friend's sister and since I actually like her I don't really know how to go about this. So any help would be very much appreciated.

I am totally serious when I say this;

The key here is to just not give a shat about the outcome. As soon as you start micro-managing your behavior and worrying about screwing up and such.......the self fulfilling prophecy occurs.
Just do something real casual, maybe meet for a coffee or a drink. Just put your arm around her and say "hey champ" to crack the ice or whatever. I also like the kiss-close-to-mouth-method, but what you do doesn't really matter as long as you own it. If you already kissed her obviously she is attracted to you somewhat, so just relax.

[icarus]

Originally Posted by mikey_the_redneck

Just put your arm around her and say "hey champ" to crack the ice or whatever.

LOL. Ladies Man in the house!!

[dissentowner]

If you shoot down her throat with no warning and her response is "that's alright" you are in a relationship.

[troutman]

The Streets:

I saw this thing on ITV the other week,
Said, that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen
She's playin with her hair, well regularly,
So i reckon i could well be in.

[missdpuck]

Not until it's formally discussed and defined .

[Ozy_Flame]

Originally Posted by Phanuthier

6 interviews a week, finishing off a Stanford MBA and the projects that go along with it, in negotiations for 4 different job executive positions while doing these interviews, and since Stanford's GSB attracts alot of international students, a lot of people are returning to their countries... looks like right now, she may be accepting an one of the offers, but she's in negotiations for salary now.

You sure you want to hook up with this chick? Sounds like she's going to be in love with her laptop and rolodex, not actual human beings.